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Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Hi, I have just joined. I have a few mental illnesses, but am especially interested in hearing if there are any diagnosed germophobes or people with hoarding disorder on these forums?

I don't know any germophobes in real life, and would be interested to know how any of you pre-Corona germophobes are doing. Can you find enough sanitiser? If not, what are you using instead? Has your germophobia gone sky-high in this pandemic? Do you find it less or more lonely now that nearly everyone is a self-confessed germophobe?

My germophobia is quite bad - I can't have anyone in my house, and need lots of sanitiser when I go out. E.g. I use it after leaving my house and before I get in the car; again before I touch the steering wheel, again after touching my purse, again before putting my seat belt on, etc. I am struggling to find enough sanitiser. If I run out, I was thinking about diluting some disinfectant and putting it into an old water bottle to take out with me. I had one really bad panic lasting 3 days that was debilitating, due to COVID-19, but after that thankfully my germophobia came back down to normal levels. I guess normal levels are not that great but at least I am used to them!

I am strangely finding it more lonely as a diagnosed germophobe now, and would really like to meet some other germophobes online and hear how you're going. At least I had a friend tell me that I was in a stronger position than him, during this health crisis, as he had trouble remembering to wash his hands, whereas I wash them a hundred times a day already!

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Did you ever have a period of scarcity in your life? I had, and it definitely affected me long-term.

When I was very young, and my mother was working, we lived pretty well. But when she got her injury and had to leave the job and go on a pension, we were poor. I remember being sent to school without food for lunch, and a friend would feel pity for me and give me something from their lunchbox occasionally. Looking back on it, I feel guilty, and it probably contributed to the fact I hoard things like I never have enough. Also, I have this memory of the distinct smell of the hospital in my house growing up. My mother would spend most days cleaning. She never taught me to clean 'cos she had to do everything her way. Now I am obsessed with cleaning, but my house is always messy. It's weird.

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Hello @NatureLover

I'm not great however I had to soldier on and go in today. I did what needed to be done "in person" today so will work from home the next two days. A quick telehealth appointment with GP and a repeat on prescription.

I am so happy.your new manager seems good, ah what a relief 🙏✔️

Keep taking care dear NL, sending you much ❤️💚💛

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Thank you, dear @Anastasia ...how are you feeling today? I hope much better...

I had a day off the forums yesterday - actually it was a day off everything! I stayed at home and did nothing except rest, read and eat. I really needed to not think about anything...things have been a bit over-busy in my real life lately. The house has got into a frightful mess, so today I need to do a lot of tidying up. But it's all good.

I haven't caught up on anyone's news yet, am about to do that now.

I'm glad you can work from home today. Much thoughts and 💚 to you...

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@NatureLover 🌷🌻


Dear @Emelia8 , how amazing for you to visit when you have so much pain and so much on your plate - thank you. Have just caught up with your thread - I see you are doing amazingly, arranging everything for your hubby's funeral. And also that you are struggling to eat, drink, and remember to look after yourself 💔 This is not surprising...I hope you can put some reminders around the place to help you remember.

Am thinking of you lots, was thinking of you yesterday despite being away from the Forums. Sending heaps of 💜 and wishes and thoughts at this incredibly difficult time for you.

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Hi @Former-Member ...I'm not surprised you had some scarcity in your life - hunger makes a huge impact. I've been hungry a lot in my adult life, and now I hoard food. (Not as a result of the pandemic - I did it for ages before that, and obviously couldn't do it last year.)

Hoarding and contamination OCD clash, I find. They are hard to manage when each makes the other harder. So my house is messy like yours, with too much 'Stuff', all of which needs disinfecting and which piles up waiting for me to have the energy to do it.

I'm really sorry you suffered scarcity. 😞

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Oh @NatureLover they've sent him home and he has a potentially life threatening rash!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Trying to reach dr now

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Oh no, @Anastasia ! Really hoping you can get an emergency doctor 🤞

Sending urgent wishes out to the Universe for you...

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@Anastasiahoping you were able to get your boy look after hun. I hope he is ok my love.

thinking of you and your boy. 💗

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Thank you both. Sorry to worry you, it just happened whilst I was here attempting to "catch up"

Will know more in the morning, he's sleeping for now x

Will update when I know what is going on and that he's ok x

@NatureLover @Lee82 🙏💞

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