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Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Hi, I have just joined. I have a few mental illnesses, but am especially interested in hearing if there are any diagnosed germophobes or people with hoarding disorder on these forums?

I don't know any germophobes in real life, and would be interested to know how any of you pre-Corona germophobes are doing. Can you find enough sanitiser? If not, what are you using instead? Has your germophobia gone sky-high in this pandemic? Do you find it less or more lonely now that nearly everyone is a self-confessed germophobe?

My germophobia is quite bad - I can't have anyone in my house, and need lots of sanitiser when I go out. E.g. I use it after leaving my house and before I get in the car; again before I touch the steering wheel, again after touching my purse, again before putting my seat belt on, etc. I am struggling to find enough sanitiser. If I run out, I was thinking about diluting some disinfectant and putting it into an old water bottle to take out with me. I had one really bad panic lasting 3 days that was debilitating, due to COVID-19, but after that thankfully my germophobia came back down to normal levels. I guess normal levels are not that great but at least I am used to them!

I am strangely finding it more lonely as a diagnosed germophobe now, and would really like to meet some other germophobes online and hear how you're going. At least I had a friend tell me that I was in a stronger position than him, during this health crisis, as he had trouble remembering to wash his hands, whereas I wash them a hundred times a day already!

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Thanks, @Maggie , yes, it was a puzzle! I'm not sure it will last, once we get busier and she needs the phone in the front office...I need the phone too, but I'm just a volunteer. We don't have enough equipment really.

It struck me yesterday that I do answer the phone to distressed or angry people occasionally at work...maybe even once per day...but it has never led to burnout feelings for me. Maybe because I'm in work mode, and my boss told me years ago what to say to them...maybe also because I'm a volunteer, and I can pass anything that I can't handle onto the staff or my boss. Somehow it's different to answering distressed people here, on the forums. Maybe because I can relate more to people here with MI, and am more emotionally involved...or maybe because the distressed /angry people at work aren't suicidal, to my knowledge...I don't know.


@Maggie wrote:

I rang my painting lady. She has had a fall. She’s ok, but bruised . She’s 89, so it gets tricky at times. She said next week, full speed ahead. So a quiet week here.


Oh gosh, it's lucky that she didn't break a hip! So you still have her 'loud' piece waiting in your house...

I assume your cleaning lady will still be coming this week?

Actually cloudy with rain here today. I'm glad you have sun. I have lunch with the other volunteers today, that will be nice. Not everyone is back at work yet, due to density rules.

I see your equal number of 4 coffees and 4 hearts 😄

I hope you and your furbaby and your garden enjoy the sun today 💜

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Hello @NatureLover @Maggie @Former-Member @Eve7 @Emelia8

Happy to hear your news re your boss @NatureLover , hoping it's lasts for you 🤞🙏💞

Not happy to hear of your students fall @Maggie gosh, I hope she fully recovers and comes back next week to continue her work with you 🙏🤞✔️

How was brekkie with your friend @Eve7 , I love breakfast outings. My bf and unused to do them regularly when things were different.

Yep ✔️ details here too lol. Is in my job description. I remember my contract had an inconsistency so I raised it and they said they were impressed with my attention to detail ☺️ Can be a downside too as I am sure you are all aware.

Hoping you all have some love and light today, hugs and hugs

☕☕☕☕☕❤️💚💜💛💙

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@NatureLover I know the CG roll changed things for me. I normally have an over the top feeling of responsibility with most things, I take it too seriously, and I threw myself into it in almost frenzy mode. I wonder if it’s a similar thing with you. Like you said, you can hand it on at work. I’ve backed off and the boat is still afloat. 😂😂😂😂😂

My cleaning help comes every fortnight, so not this week either. I’ve been sorting paints ,stones and canvases 🤬🤬🤬 Its a tiny flat, so not much room. That might be a good thing.

Enjoy lunch out, somewhere and something nice I hope. 🧀🥐🥯🌮🥪🍟☕️☕️

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@Anastasia I smiled reading the details bit. Definitely a down side. Did you ever do those spot the differences in pics as a kid ? I loved them, but might be outdated now.

I hope work was ok enough for you yesterday, and today, if you are heading back that way.

Hugs to you. ☕️☕️💕💕

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@Maggie Yes, I did the same with the CG stuff. I'm glad your boat is still afloat, for your own sake. 🙂

I hadn't realised that your cleaning help comes fortnightly. I agree about the tiny flat maybe being good - I have the same. Still, must be frustrating not having several large tables on which to spread out your stuff. Imagine the luxury of having one large table for stones, one for canvases and one for paints! No wonder you use the bathroom. I can only fit one small table for my computer...but then again I'm not painting these days, so it's OK.

Your range of things to eat made me smile 😄 Actually we're going to a cafe which serves creative gourmet food and which has a yummy vegan menu alongside its normal menu. I think if I could have cooked vegan food like they cook it, I might have stayed vegan. It's my favourite cafe. Sadly, I have expensive tastes in food 😣

Good luck sorting all your creating stuff out. I'm so glad you have the gift of creativity.

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Hello, another details person @Anastasia 🙂

I liked the story of finding an inconsistency in your contract!

The bullying lady is not actually my boss...my boss is thankfully lovely, but she can't control the CEO's wife, as the CEO lets her do whatever she wants. It's tricky.

Hugs back to you...hoping your day at work today goes as well as possible, and isn't overwhelming. 💙

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Ha ha, being a details person @Anastasia . Are you back in the office again today, or working from home?

In my former work, I too had the reputation for finding errors and inconsistencies.

Although my work revolved around accounting (which does need to be details focused), I was soon given the task of checking and proofing everything before it left the office ... that included letters, invoices, tax returns sent through to ATO, etc. I used to get light hearted jibes about it, but it was all in fun ... I think.

Hi @NatureLover @Maggie 💓

Emelia 🌸

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Hi @NatureLover

I’m much better this week thanks and about to tackle the housework grr.

I hope you are starting to pick up.

Hi @Anastasia

brekky was good with my friend yesterday. We do it a couple of times a week usually after our walk. We used to meet after a run but now we just walk!! There’s about 7 in our group that are regular so I’m really lucky there.

Have a good day at work my friend.

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Haha quick toilet stop and read. Thanks for the messages @Eve7 @NatureLover @Emelia8 @Maggie I'm in the office today so running. Home tomorrow should be able to check in and respond properly then, love and hugs 🤗🙏💝🌻🌱✔️☕☕☕☕☕

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Good morning @Maggie ☕...my brain's not working to think of things to say, but am thinking of you...I think your counsellor might still be away...I hope your quiet week works out OK. Sending 💜 and a gentle hug.

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