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Down right now

Unknown userMember01 Mar 2020, 3:24 pm AEDT

Down right now

I'm quite down right now, and I was feeling OK earlier.

I'm getting my BB (Beyond Blue) forum account back tomorrow at 9am. But I'm really worried that people who I talked to on there, or just in general, have been saying stuff about me behind my back and getting others to hate me.

I feel like they're all better off without me, sometimes I feel that way about this forum and Reach Out, although people have talked to me, and that's me hating myself no one else.

@Former-Member @NNY @Bunniekins @eth @Valentine @MDT @CheerBear @TheVorticon @Shaz51 @Snowie @outlander @Faith-and-Hope @Sans911 @WriterMelb @TAB @Former-Member @BlueBay and anyone else (I'm here for all of you and others here, I hope none of you mind me tagging you again, sorry)

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TABSenior Contributor01 Mar 2020, 5:23 pm AEDT

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I'm pretty sure no one is saying anything bad about you @Former-Member

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ethSenior Contributor01 Mar 2020, 5:28 pm AEDT

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Hi @Former-Member I've been on the SANE forums since 2014 and have never seen anyone directly talk down about someone behind their back. We just don't operate that way, partly due to the forum guidelines and also because we can't private message anyone. I've not been on the other forums you mention but if I'd had the experience you describe I would have left them anyway. Very much hoping you find the support and connection you are looking for here.

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Unknown userMember01 Mar 2020, 5:32 pm AEDT

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Thanks @eth & @TAB .

I don't have a problem with these forums or Reach Out, I'm just worried that the stuff I mentioned is happening on BB. When I come back (tomorrow, my account will be reactivated at 9am they said) I'll just talk to new people and the ones I've talked to beforehand who are nice.

Yes I'll still be on here and the Reach Out Forums. *I edited the post and removed my usernames just incase, sorry all.*

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MDTSenior Contributor01 Mar 2020, 5:34 pm AEDT

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I found that BB forums was a bit political @Former-Member

I don't use it much anymore

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Unknown userMember01 Mar 2020, 5:40 pm AEDT

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How do you mean if you don't mind me asking? @MDT

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CheerBearSenior Contributor01 Mar 2020, 5:41 pm AEDT

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Hi @Former-Member. Sorry things have been tricky for you and you're feeling down. I hope you can sort things out soon.

You might be asked to edit your post above as it's against our guidelines to share usernames of other sites here.

I'm wondering whether you have been here on SANE forums as a member recently and returned with a different username/new account? Your details above seem familiar (but I could be wrong).

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Unknown userMember01 Mar 2020, 5:46 pm AEDT