Eden1919Senior Contributor
i dont know what to do
a lot has been happening and i am not coping very well. i am worried that things will get worse but i dont know what to do. no one can actually help me anyway. i still dont know what to do though.
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
a lot has been happening and i am not coping very well. i am worried that things will get worse but i dont know what to do. no one can actually help me anyway. i still dont know what to do though.
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DogloverSenior Contributor
Here for u as best I can (which I know isn't very good) @Eden1919 if u want to talk.
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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frogSenior Contributor
Hey @Eden1919 I hear you re a lot going on.
Is there one thing in particular that you feel like you need to do something about?
It can be tough if there are lots of things. I get overwhelmed. But if I pick one and try and do something, however small, I sometimes feel a bit better.
Hi @The-red-centaur @Doglover
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
@frog @The-red-centaur @Doglover thank you all for the replies. I am not sure I can say exactly what is going on. I just feel very stressed to the point I am like spacing out all the time and I keep having thoughts about stuff that scares me like things like other people trying to trick me or trying to hurt me or other thoughts I cannot talk about. And sometimes I hear things that make me scared too and I have been trying but it is really hard all the time and I am not sure what to do because I don’t know if I should tell my doctor or if I should just try and keep ignoring it because I am not sure I can tell my doctor even if I wanted too. It is complicated
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Eden1919 Hey Eden1919 do you now have a good psychologist that you trust and whom you can talk with about these problems? I personally feel you have to talk about it as problems generally speaking dont go away by themselves through just ignoring them.
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
@Bunniekins I don’t think I could talk about this with my psychologist.
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Eden1919 I think I understand where you are coming from and yes it is problematic. You cannot talk about it here can you. You are between a rock and a hard place I think the saying goes unable to move.
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
@Bunniekins Yes I am stuck, i can’t talk to anyone about it because of reasons I also cannot say but it is tearing me up inside and I feel really on edge 24/7 because of it and I don’t know what I am supposed to do I just want to cry but I can’t even do that.
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Eden1919 it is a terrible position to be in .... all I can say is I am here for you. I wish you could tell me but I know you cannot and I am pretty sure I know some of the reasons why as you have hinted them in the past conversations. I will be on in the early morning around 3 as I want to go for a walk early. If you are still up and I know you often are and need someone to talk with I will check for any of your messages then. Take care my friend. Talk soon. Love always peaxx
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
@Bunniekins Thank you, I am pretty tired so I may fall asleep soon but I am also very scared because of something and I don’t know which will win the panic or the tiredness.
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