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having fun when you are over 50

BunniekinsSenior Contributor31 Dec 2019, 3:15 am AEDT

having fun when you are over 50

Hey for the all the over 50s

I was thinking today about having fun when you are are now 'mature' and single and not dead lol. I am sitting here at 3am on my second cup of coffee listening to The Cure and would love some fun. Dancing like at a concert having someone to go with who wants just to have fun No strings attached just looking for a good time (no sex necessarily) so there is no pressure on me to perform. To be honest the medications have killed any sexua drive in me. Is that the same for anyone else on anti psychotics?

My sister has gone on dating sites and has had a few dates but none of the guys have called her back after the first date.. I dont want to go on a dating site. It is not the peas style. I just want a bad boy with dark flashing eyes to get into trouble with. Is that too much to ask?

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 2:47 am AEDT

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@TAB Hey TABs you are up early?

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TABSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 2:59 am AEDT

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Just woke cos uncomfortable @Bunniekins went to bed super early

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TABSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 3:00 am AEDT

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But been awake half an hour now playing w phone wondering if should get up @Bunniekins

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 3:10 am AEDT

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@TAB Best to get up if you cannot sleep and then try again for sleep a bit later. How is the heat. It isnt baad here so will be going for walk with neighbour now tht she is wel.

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TABSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 3:14 am AEDT

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Yeah I know think given up on sleep here @Bunniekins

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TABSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 3:16 am AEDT

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Yeah hot again after 2 days under 32 now 40,40+ 30 32 40 40 woo hoo @Bunniekins least only 2 days at a time now

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 3:17 am AEDT

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@TAB Hmmm ... son2 has left the remains of a big cockroac for me to clean up .....

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 3:19 am AEDT

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@TAB s yeah we have a 41 on Saturday not looking forward to that as some idiot is bound to start a fire somewhere.

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TABSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 3:26 am AEDT

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yeah its crazy @Bunniekins re fires I prob shouldnt say it but thought more than once surely there's nothing left to burn ?

well perhaps train son to clean them up and or get roach baits lol

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor02 Jan 2020, 3:29 am AEDT

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@TAB Lol well he does but he always manages to leave a leg somewhere for me to accidently put my hand on .... I know re fires heading for Warnanbool now apparently. I went there years ago pretty little town.

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