VelociraptorSenior Contributor
Things are not okay.
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VelociraptorSenior Contributor
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Hi @Velociraptor ....
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Hi @Velociraptor
Thanks for posting to let us know that you're okay. I'm really sorry that you perceived the email that you received to be impersonal or inappropriate. It's super-important to us that the forums feel like a safe and welcoming space for community members so I am glad that you have shared your thoughts about this with us. Feedback helps us all to improve!
The SANE Forums is operated within a Duty of Care framework which means that it is part of our job to connect members to professional supports if it appears that might be necessay. Of course, you do not have to follow through with suggestions that are made to you.
As you say Velociraptor, the Forum is full of beautifully supportive and helpful individuals and the forums team would like you to feel comfortable here. If you would like to discuss this further with a member of the team I encourage you to send an email to team@saneforums.org. You might choose to address it to the Community Managers.
Take care.
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ScarecroweSenior Contributor
I hear your pain @Velociraptor (cool name by the way).
So much my thoughts in your post.....................all I can say is hang in there and take each second at a time............blessings to you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.
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VelociraptorSenior Contributor
Thank you @Former-Member, that was a really lovely response.
Can we make a deal?
I promise won't hurt myself while on, or in the temporal proximity of using the forums, and no one emails me to call lifeline when I post about how I want to be dead?
(I'm semi-joking, semi-serious btw)
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VelociraptorSenior Contributor
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
You’re a very cool dinosaur @Velociraptor ..... 🦕x🦖 (can’t find an emoji that looks right)
@Scarecrowe hi 👋
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VelociraptorSenior Contributor
@Faith-and-Hope
Incidentally, I may not have been. Velociraptors were thought to be semi-warm blooded. Similar to some flightless birds.
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ScarecroweSenior Contributor
I can assure you @Velociraptor thoughts like this have plagued me on and off for a few decades now. But like you I would not do anything.....my father took his own life when I was 24 and knowing what we all went through at the time (and how much I miss him dearly every second of every day) I would not do that to my loved ones (especially my sister's three gorgeous children).
We are all here for you whenever you need support.....................xxxxxx
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ScarecroweSenior Contributor
Blessings to you @Faith-and-Hope
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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ScarecroweSenior Contributor
@Velociraptor Lol, very clever response......
A few years ago I had my picture taken with the velociraptor from Jurassic Park at Universal Studios Hollywood.................was extremely life like and a bit scary I have to admit. One kid was freaking out bigtime when it walked out lol...
But I can tell that you are a very friendly velociraptor...... 🙂
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