Suffocating Day

@JosRapp that's very tough for you. I don't know what to suggest. In my case, I am having my own MI, work issues , relationship issues, problems looking after elderly mother. I find it very challenging. Day to day , it's a big struggle. May be can you reach out to some people ? Try a bit of conversation.

@Meowmy sorry you are going through all that.

I have difficulty starting and joining conversations. Even online. Finding someone to talk with is hard enough. I have looked on the Social Spaces here, but even there it feels like I am intruding on someone elses conversation. I know I'm not but it always feels like I am and I get lost amongst everyone else.

@JosRapp socialization is not easy. I have been to functions where I was not much included in the conversations. It is easier if you know people over some years, like Uni friends, family friends,or work friends.May be you could look people up. These days there’s Facebook or other media people may be on.

@Meowmy

I haven't had any friends, so there is nobody to look up.

@JosRapp It is very tough for you.Emotional relationships are not easy to manage or maintain. May be you might find comfort in reading. Reading people’s thinking can be good company. There was a period in my life, I survived with little real life friends and just read and listened to music. That probably saved me from much poor relationships.lol.

@Meowmy I read a lot already. I like it, reading has always been an escape from bullying and loneliness, but the characters aren't real people. I have tried bookclubs and reading groups, but they always seem to be much, much older people, and goes the same way as any other group.

@JosRapp Yea very hard for you. Emotional support is essential for our survival. Without it, I don’t know what to suggest. Some people put tv, radio on all day in their houses for company. That works a bit.

@Meowmy I do that sometimes, but it is no substitute for someone. There is no emotional support so I don't know, it feels like it will always be like this.

@JosRapp May be just accept it a bit, as not much can be done in a hurry. Just think a bit differently. All emotional relationships are very draining. Ups and downs a lot. Some good moments, a lot of hard work and feel bad times. Without them, you may just more in control. And can do as you please . You never know, around the corner, you may bump into someone, who just cut to accept you as who you are. I know it’s hard. But it can be done.

@Meowmy Was told that 25 years ago. Just be happy alone and it will happen when you least expect it. But it doesn't. And to be quite honest now it just feels like I am being told that there will be nobody.