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Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hi All

There is a thread operating on the Lived Experience Forum under Night Shift where members who are having trouble sleeping for any reason give a bit of a shout-out, to see if there is anyone else sleepless and looking for company. It's been such a great thing, I thought I would start one over here too.

I have had the odd few nights where I have woken up on and off, and my kids have been having a bit of trouble some nights too, depending on what has happened during the day.

Being a carer can be lonely too, so if you are making an after-midnight cup of something hot, and wonder who else might be doing that too, maybe have a look-in here and see if anyone else is about.

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I really hope so too @Former-Member you deserve a break away. Do you mind me asking how many yrs youve been together?

Ive tried those nango ones im a huge mango fan but i really didn't like them but you might think differently


@Faith-and-Hope its been really hard for you. Im really feeling for you and with you. I do hope things brighten up and you can at least start your paintings again

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I won’t be able to oil paint over east @outlander ..... but I don’t have the heart for it at the moment anyway. It would mean going out and buying all my equipment all over again as well ..... all the paints, brushes, easels etc ..... and we don’t have a ventilated area for it either.

Acrylics are a possibility.

I have to wait until I am ready, and that’s not yet.

One step at a time.

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Any paint will do @Faith-and-Hope do you paint with water colours?
But yes its hard to paint when your not in the mood too either. Its good to have some supplies though just in case ❤

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Been married 33 years @outlander

@Faith-and-Hope ...

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Wow thats amazing @Former-Member

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One of my favorites @Former-Member 😋

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Feeling for you @Faith-and-Hope, I would hate to have to relocate at tbe moment, I is something that I do need to contemplate for the future employment wise and it concerns me.

Do you know if there any churches close to your new home that are same or similar in values/ teaching? I know how valuable this can be.

We started at our current church in the middle of a crisis (darling was in hospital at the time) and the support we have recieved without even knowing our situation has been amazing. I often wonder how I would have coped without it.

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I often wonder if we would be better off a bit nearer family but think a move would be too destabilizing for Mr D unless he felt he had a purpose in any move.

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Without discrediting the value of family support, existing support networks, friends, church medical alliances is not something easily replaced making relocating a hard call at the best of times. For me anyway.

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When we moved to our current location (over 18 years ago now) I did not give this nearly enough consideration. At the time I was focused on gaining employment before our wedding so I could provide for my wife, I would have moved anywhere simply to have a job. Something I have regrets about. I wonder if things could have been different if my darling could have stayed in her own environment with her own friends and family close by. My family were closeish in distance but our two families were worlds apart and it was a big culture shock for my darling .

The fact that we were expected to travel and stay over every weekend didnt help, in many ways we would have been better off being further away from my family,

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