Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hello All

Sure could use some chamomile tea right now to calm my nerves down. But then again might make me fall asleep which I can't as got to work work work.

Weather was so rainy and cold this morning but it looks sunny outside. Oh I wish I could be outside than stuck in this office. Kinda in low spirits today

Hello @Anony18

Camomile tea sounds wonderful , I love one after dinner, but I will have one now

yes It is very wet here and very cool -- YUK ¬¬¬

Hello @Anony18

I have found the forum very helpful-

but I know now from these forums that dealing with a person with mental health just got to be available not invasive. -- yes and it is tough

I have learnt that we have to look after ouselves to be able to look after others , like our friend @CherryBomb keeps reminding me , I am still learning

Hi @Shaz51

Definitely is tough - some days even more. I am definitely glad I have my outside activities. Keeps my mind off things. Talking about activities went to watch Sausage Party in the bean bag cinema. Such a silly film but made me laugh and not one that requires thinking. Best for days when your brain is tired.

Am off to bed now. All rugged up in my bathrobe.

Hello @Anony18

sorry I didn`t get back to you yesterday

Medications has made a difference in my Husband, took a long time

still has lots of ups and downs everyday , got some side affects to the meds

Sausage Party in the bean bag cinema -- that sounds interesting @Anony18, It is sooo good to have a laugh , good for the soul they say

hope you are having an ok day today

Hi @Shaz51

Was it a good difference or should I say positive? I don't know much about meds something I will research into if my partner does tell me what he on. But I remember him saying he has meds that numbs the emotions and makes him drowsy since his mind races.

Yeah it is interesting and dangerous if you are tired cause you could fall asleep ☺️ Definitely won't wanna drink chamomile tea before watching a movie there!

My day here just starting and it is looking like a good one despite the weather. My partner messaged asking if he could come over for a couple hrs. Said he doesn't feel like talking much just cuddle which is understandable given he has said he hasn't really been best with family problems. Then I have high tea with my girlfriends - dessert galore!

How has your day been?

Hi @Anony18

when he was on anti depressants meds , nothing changed but the doctors have put him on anti anxiety meds as well

there are some postive difference ,which is good , but there are other changes because of the meds

I found it good to know what he is on , doing the research and helping him through together

I have found just being there for him is the best , sitting with him and cuddles , not talking

I find if i am calm , he is calm and relaxed ,

Have a great afternoon

I am doing ok, catching up on some cleaning

Coffee anyone