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Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hi All

There is a thread operating on the Lived Experience Forum under Night Shift where members who are having trouble sleeping for any reason give a bit of a shout-out, to see if there is anyone else sleepless and looking for company. It's been such a great thing, I thought I would start one over here too.

I have had the odd few nights where I have woken up on and off, and my kids have been having a bit of trouble some nights too, depending on what has happened during the day.

Being a carer can be lonely too, so if you are making an after-midnight cup of something hot, and wonder who else might be doing that too, maybe have a look-in here and see if anyone else is about.

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Sad face @Anony18

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@soul - here are some pics from my hike yesterday...we saw a bandicoot too. Will post the pics from the brewery where I had my lunch shortly after.

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@soul - this is at the brewery, including what went into my belly. It is a couple of paintings I came across that thought lil-caterpillar would have liked.

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I don't know what to say to you @Anony18 .... I think your guy is not treating you well at all, but you have invested so much into the relationship already, it must be hard to think of letting him go.

Hugs .... 😘💕❤️

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Ooh ooh .... dark chocolate here pleeeese @Rockpool ....

@Former-Member, I keep missing you when you are here

Hello @Faith-and-Hope, @Anony18, @soul, @Determined, @Former-Member, @Former-Member

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No need to say much @Faith-and-Hope....I know he is being really unfair to me. Of course uncertain why he is acting way he is as I am baffled that being consumed by his family issues is causing him to react in such a way and be ignorant. Baffled by why he doesn't want to talk, wondering if it is his fear that by talking it will result in me leaving him....i don't know.

Aware am invested so much in this relationship but am also aware I cannot go through this again so if he wants me to stick around as a partner than a friend or stranger then he needs to change his communication. If we were just friends I probably would be chasing him so much less. Probably leave him to be and send a follow up text. End of day I still care for him and will love him but going forward what relationship we have is dependent on him and what he wants.

Hi @Shaz51 - how are you? Is the ear all better?

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sending you hugs @Anony18

yes the ear is good -

see the dietician tomorrow again, it has been a month already

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That is great to hear @Shaz51 (get the pun?!):smileylol:

Thanks for that!

@Faith-and-Hope to add - it's tough and worrying that things will end with my partner but I think am somewhat prepared for it. But the hard and anxious part is the fact I can't move forward to the next step (whatever it is) til he talks to me and I have no clue when that is. Friends have said just text or email him "It's over!" Unfortunately that is not me, which makes me feel at times that maybe I am just weak

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Hi @Shaz51

Yes we do keep missing each other...I have topic tuesdsy tonight and I'll be around on friday for friday feast so I'm around more this week

How are you doing? I;m glad to hear your ear is better...that sounded painful! How is everything else going?

You can certainly have a dark hot chocolate

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thank you @Anony18, @Former-Member

I will be hear tonight @Former-Member

am going ok, a bit achy and tired today as 3 of us cleaned all the walls and ceilings at my mother inlaws house yesterday and this morning we cleaned for 4 and half hours -- glad to have the afternoon off

Seeing the dietician now with my pysical problems but all is stable

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