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Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hi All

There is a thread operating on the Lived Experience Forum under Night Shift where members who are having trouble sleeping for any reason give a bit of a shout-out, to see if there is anyone else sleepless and looking for company. It's been such a great thing, I thought I would start one over here too.

I have had the odd few nights where I have woken up on and off, and my kids have been having a bit of trouble some nights too, depending on what has happened during the day.

Being a carer can be lonely too, so if you are making an after-midnight cup of something hot, and wonder who else might be doing that too, maybe have a look-in here and see if anyone else is about.

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Hey @Anony18, I hope the bushwalking helps to clear your head or at the very least distracts you. I have just come back from a two and a half hour walk. I thought it might be somewhat quieter out there but there were heaps of people - families, couples at coffee shops for breakfast and large crowds doing Anzac Day things.

So I've come home rather exhausted and not with the feeling of exhilaration that I was hoping for.

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Wow, @soul, 2.5hrs walk, amazing! I regret not being more active, you inspire me. Hi @everyone else - hope all are well. @Faith-and-Hope, really liked the ripple affects you captured in one of your last pictures. You have a great artistic eye, keep sharing.

I'm helping my mum/dad attend Anzac march. Dad served in the Korean peninsular and mum in nursing corp in 50's. They both look good in medals (though I didn't plan ahead re mums cancer weight loss, her red jacket is hanging off her). Found a cute Anzac teddy I'll edit in when I get to desktop. 'Lest We Forget'
Cheers

mum

dad and all those who served, and especially those lost ❤🌿

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Hi @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope @soul @Spookytookims @Former-Member

Little Caterpillar - I really like this new profile pic of yours. Is it one of your drawings? Brilliant.

Lapses - Good on you for getting to the Anzac march with your Mum and Dad. I was at the March and Commemoration Service this morning too. Lovely day here - not too hot and overcast but dry. We are lucky here as the town's Memorial Park is right alongside the large local river. A lovely backdrop to the Service. The river was particularly calm and restful today, which was really beautiful.

Anyway I dropped hubby off at the march marshalling area with the rest of the Vietnam Vets and then headed off down the road where I could cheer them all on as they marched. I was very proud of them all as they looked so smart and dapper in their suits and medals etc. After the service I dropped him and a few of his mates at the RSL where they were going to have lunch, play two-up and no doubt indulge in way too many drinks. Too many people around for me, so I told him to call me when he was ready to be picked up, and I came home. I think it will be a long day ... and night.

Yes Lapses, indeed ............. Lest we Forget. All those past and present service men and women who sacrificed so much for their country and its people. Most of them, to varying degress, continue to suffer the after affects of their war injuries, both mental and physical.

Sherry xx

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Hi @Anony18. Sorry you feel as though you are in some sort of limbo. Not a nice feeling, I seem to find myself in that state quite regularly too actually. I hope you feel better soon. Hugs to you.

@Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @soul @Spookytookims @Former-Member.

I have just brought in a tray of freshly baked ANZAC biscuits, and have plonked them on the table here for everyone to share. Just in time for afternoon tea I figured.

Please help yourself, they are particularly yummy actually. I have definitely excelled myself today.

So I will sit here now for a while with a pot of tea and a bickie or two. Join me if you wish.

Sherry

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oh yes please @Former-Member

hows your day been loveley?

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We missed the march today for the first time in years. Being a small town, we know a lot of those marching, and miss the ones that aren't there any more. Might be for the best- I was overly teary last year. Running too much on empty, and I think I'm more so now, so I'll quietly remember here at home instead.

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Anzac buckies... yum!

best anzac memory. Being at Anzac House in Cannakale, Turkey. Finding out it was 24th April (had no idea). Watched Mel Gibson in the movie, next morning caught boat over the straight. Walked to Gelibolu. (Gallipoli) Offered free taxi tour all around the landing site and memorials. Virtually obody around bar one small official meeting that came and went.

camped where out boys landed. Turkish people drove up late in the day and gave us a mass of fresh food and water because there were no shops of any kind around. Had a breakfast I'll never forget, cooked on our campfire right by one of the beachside cemetaries on the cliffs where they landed. Found a fork and spoon which amazed the locals apparently very rare to find anything, all been scoured so many times by so many people.

cried over the plaques of so many young guys. Teenagers. Turkish people invited us (myself and the guy friend I was with), to an all Turkish non tourist, camp. We stayed for days. They refused our money. They told us many great stories of the Anzacs and Turkish men. They believe were it not for English Officers insisting the Aussies fight, they would have sat down played cards and sports. They had a story where this was done until an English guy arrived and grabbed a gun and shot a Turkish guy. They really vehemently dislike the English, but love us Aussies and Kiwis, that even started for me on the train into Turkey from Sofia, Bulgaria. They hugged me and kanga kanga kanga ran off with my passport. Which was a littled disconcerting, but the brought it back all smiles with several Turkish officials shaking my hand. My next door neighbours in the sleep train were English. They had an ice cold "reception" and their backpacks were trashed, their cubicle looked like every item in their backpacks had been removed and just strewn all over to deliberately cover every inch of the floor. I did not know then what I learnt later, at Gelibolu, but when I did, that event finally started to make some sense.

I also cried in Kanchanaburi and shook the hand of the Thai lady (who did not speak a word of English) who was tending the manicured graves. A busliad of Japanese arrived. Laughing and jumping all ove the graves, I walked up to them, tears pouring out of my face, and although they couldnt understand me, I made it clear to them to stop. They looked at me incredulously but did stop, they quietly took their pucs then left. That was only one of my very poignant memories at the bridge on the river Kwai.

both experiences changed my views on commemorating Anzac day and resound inside me to this day. Lest we forget, war is not peace. War is terror. and torture In sanctioned form. It breeds hate and distrust, not peace and harmony. It's legacy, on those it is perpetrated, is not a good one in any way, it can't be. It's killing. I've seen too much, in too many places to ever believe anybody wants war, except those untouched by it.

lest we forget.

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Hello @Spookytookims, @Faith-and-Hope, @Smc, @Former-Member. @Former-Member

did you miss me xx

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Hi @Shaz51
We have missed you
@Spookytookims, loving the Essendon sash
Darcy

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@Former-Member Shhshhhh shhh scared!!!

@Shaz51 Helllooo there

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