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Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hi All

There is a thread operating on the Lived Experience Forum under Night Shift where members who are having trouble sleeping for any reason give a bit of a shout-out, to see if there is anyone else sleepless and looking for company. It's been such a great thing, I thought I would start one over here too.

I have had the odd few nights where I have woken up on and off, and my kids have been having a bit of trouble some nights too, depending on what has happened during the day.

Being a carer can be lonely too, so if you are making an after-midnight cup of something hot, and wonder who else might be doing that too, maybe have a look-in here and see if anyone else is about.

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topic tuesday will be interesting @soul, @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member, @Spookytookims, @Former-Member, @Anony18 xx

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whats topic tuesday? @Shaz51@soul@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member

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@Smc Really enjoyed your post. It made me think about a number of things. First off the interactions and seeing behaviour patterns when observing interactions online. You are one of the few people I have ever seen actually voice that, but I use it all the time to learn about people. Sometimes in text it takes a little to see but mostly the patterns do emerge, sometimes lack of patterns too can be telling.

I love the pic you posted with it, it's so representative of my mind actually! lol now that's a scary thought isn't it? Mine is categorised, not necessarily by the Dewey system but stil it is all organised with some pending so those books are in filing cabinets but always trying to place them in their "homes". Very rarely part with any of them because there's nearly always a place for all.

The part I found most intersting is one I hadn't considered. That being the novels vs life imposed dramas. I looked at your words and my mind started a frantic ifile sort . (It is prone to this when given a new piece of information, it's chaotic delight 😉 )

The conclusion? You are sooooooo right.. OMG I never had this aha moment before but yes... I too have unconsciously gravitated to almost excusivly the reading matter you mention.... poetry, gardening, cookery, art, fine craftwork, history, theology, sociology, sustainability.. suppose I can throw in my quantum physics but to me that encompasses all of those anyhow... how interesting.

I think somewhere a few months ago something akin to this flickered through my mind but I didn't really masticate it, but now you have raised it I'm nodding vehemently and having a real aha moment.

Thank you!! That's why I miss you when you aren't around, because your posts so often make me think and I love it!!

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@Former-Member Sane puts on a topic that people can join and they have a guest "speaker". It is held once a month I think it is... and once the thread is closed comments aren't usually allowed but the older threads can be read. They have some great topics and the few I have seen the guests are really high quality.

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Hello my @Former-Member xx

Topic tuesday is a live chat line that we have on a certain topic and tonight`s topic starts at 7pm -- 9pm

Staying safe while supporting others is the topic tonight ,

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oh ok great thanks guys @Shaz51@Spookytookims can someone tag me in the thread when it come on please? im still relativeley new on this side

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@Smc @Spookytookims

Something advertisers seem to have a knack with.

I still don't mind a novel, but tend to humorous ones or garden themed ones.

Darcy

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Thanks @Shaz51

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@Former-Memberand @Smc - Just FYI .. Here's a short note taking from the results of one study on this. It's a brief outline of the differences found :

  1. Bauerlein, Mark. 2008. “Screen No Match for the Page.”

Nielsen test showed most people read web page content in an F shape. Linearly at the top then increasingly to the left as they scan down except for a shallower linear scan around the middle and the scan is very fast.

The process is not really reading in the traditional sense, rather a scan for keywords, bulleted point and headlines, introductions tended to be ignored.

In 2003 Nielsen warned PDF files were seen as a blob and unless printed out were ignored.

Teenagers skim through the web faster than adults but are not as effective at task completion. Teenagers view the web as entertainment they get their information from school.

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