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Hello @Faith-and-Hope. @soul, @Determined, @Former-Member, @Anony18, @Appleblossom

What`s up my dear friend @Spookytookims

Hi @soul @Determined @Shaz51 @Faith-and-Hope @Spookytookims

Got tagged in a few posts so thought better pop in so as not to be rude.

@Spookytookims - what's happen my dear friend. Or is it still the remnants of what happen last week? I know how you feel about trying to muster a smile. It has been me the past few days. Hard to find the light at the moment. But we got to keep on trying!

@Shaz51 @Anony18

It's the same stuff, just more of it @Anony18 it keeps happening and the mods don't give a shite about it. Really getting me down. I know that is what the shite is designed to do and unfortunately it is definitely working although I keep telling myself to ignore it, when it keeps happening it makes it very hard to ignore.

I'm sorry, everyone here has probs of their own and mine are insignificant, but it just makes me teary and I hate being teary.

@Spookytookims - that is not good that the forums are making you feel this way. Please don't thnk that your problems are insignificant. No ones problem is insignificant so don't apologise. *Big Hugs* my friend. Wish I could do so much more to help but I do hope knowing am here helps, even just a tiny bit xx

helps a lot @Anony18 Thank you. Really thank you, not just saying it.

Hello @Anony18, hope you are ok, been thinking of you today

@Spookytookims my friend , we really really like you here with us xx

Glad to hear @Spookytookims. Don't know if you are similar to me (or if it may make you smile a little) but when I am extremely upset or angry, other than bawl my eyes out, I also tend to love punching my pillow really hard. My poor pillow...probably explains why it is so soft and I get neck pains.

@Shaz51 - how is the bladder infection? You healing up fine. I been struggling a bit the past few days. Really anxious for a few days now. Sunday night woke up in middle night hearing noises thinking we were being robbed then whole day yesterday and today work tensions been high and didn't help I was so stressed this morning trying to get to a meeting and there was an accident that caused me to be 25 mins late. Was so close to tears T__T

Guess feeling like this is making me feel needy for my partner but he appears to be going through his own mental problems now. He did reply Sunday (finally!) to say he is fine but need more time to himself and will try catch up this weekend if he is feeling better. Something must have happened but not sure what but am sure when we catch up (whenever that is!) I will find out.

yes @Shaz51 how is your infection? I hope it has cleared up for you. So sorry you have those health issues. You are very cheery most of the time and I admire you for that.

@Anony18 I haven't been around much... what happened with that phone call? I'm hesitant to ask cos I don't want to bring up negative stuff for you if you couldn't get hold of him.

sending you hugs @Anony18, I know I usually dont find out to later what happen to hubby

Yes bladder infection is going away xx

@Anony18 scratch that.. I just read your reply to Shaz.. sorry hadn't read it.