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Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hi All

There is a thread operating on the Lived Experience Forum under Night Shift where members who are having trouble sleeping for any reason give a bit of a shout-out, to see if there is anyone else sleepless and looking for company. It's been such a great thing, I thought I would start one over here too.

I have had the odd few nights where I have woken up on and off, and my kids have been having a bit of trouble some nights too, depending on what has happened during the day.

Being a carer can be lonely too, so if you are making an after-midnight cup of something hot, and wonder who else might be doing that too, maybe have a look-in here and see if anyone else is about.

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No Jelly Cat insisted on going back outside @Former-Member I might go & call her now.

Adge

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Bunker down @Adge ..... thinking of you.

Hi @Former-Member 💕

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Goodnight @Shaz51 💕💤

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@Faith-and-Hope, I've just made myself a hot chocolate now, at 2:03am. Daughter is deteriorating after coming off her meds. So tired, but unable to sleep. Seeing her doctor tomorrow and hoping for best. Don't know I have much to offer right now. Just grateful to find a space at this hour where others are around perhaps feeling same. I feel more positive having found this forum. My very best to everyone attempting to navigate this often very frightening journey. ~ Climatechange

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Hi @Climatechange thinking of you today at appointment and hope you got some rest last night

I'm @Sophie1 and am here most days

also find like you said that only carers can really understand other carers struggles

my partner MsS has Bipolar II, depression, anxiety and ptsd ... well regardless of labels she struggles and is often often often in bed with headaches and depression and is unable to hold a job down and even with meds and therapy the improvements are slight ... so I get the daily repetitive challenge and the sadness as a carer watching someone we love struggle

anyway just wanted to let you know there are some amazing people who all deal with similar and yet so different challenges here - please keep reaching out - you are not alone .. we are not alone -- as carers we have a community here thanks to the lovely Sane organisation for creating and hosting this safe space for us to connect and share

the anonymity is sometimes a challenge as we word things with are fake names instead of real names - however it is also a massive gift as it frees us to say what is really going on without fear of recrimination or reputation for ourselves or loved ones

anyway thinking of you today - keep asking questions of your health teams - keep going

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Hey @Faith-and-Hope i noticed your up pretty late.. cant you sleep?
Care to join me for a tea or something?

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Hiya @outlander 💕

Would love a hot choc actually. I'm a bit unsettled, but need to get to bed soon. I let my sleep drift a bit out of whack for my holiday break, but better start pulling it back into place, cos things are gonna be high-stress for a while.

Sending lots of virtual hugs to you @Climatechange ..... sorry I didn't see your post above until now. The forums have sure been an amazing support for me for a few years now. I felt so ridder-less in my situation before then, and I am back to that place now, but it won't be forever. I have to keep on swimming for now tho.

👋💕 @Sophie1 .....

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@Faith-and-Hope ☕🍫
Im sorry things are so turbulent still, im not sure if id be good on the advice part but im happy to listen anytime or come keep you company. Always ok to share a hot choc with you 💚💜💙💖❤

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hello @Adge , @Climatechange , @Sophie1 , @Faith-and-Hope , @outlander , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Smc , @Bunniekins , @Bezak482

well worked this morning

birthday lunch for mum and visitors ( family )

had a 3 hour sleep this afternoon ( woke up after 6pm )

now going to bed at 10pm

Raining here

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Hi @Faith-and-Hope @Shaz51 @outlander @Climatechange @Adge @Former-Member

sendin you all Carer hugs 🤗 hope you are all finding ways to self care

my new one is to try an online Zumba class on zoom - I need something fun and upbeat to inject good vibes into my week ... will let you know how it goes tomorrow !

sleep well - like you @Faith-and-Hope I have to pull my sleep cycle back into line - sigh ... that means no phone in bedroom - only books 📚 and alarm clock ⏰ .. sweet dreams my bed time now 🦋

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