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There is a thread operating on the Lived Experience Forum under Night Shift where members who are having trouble sleeping for any reason give a bit of a shout-out, to see if there is anyone else sleepless and looking for company. It's been such a great thing, I thought I would start one over here too.
I have had the odd few nights where I have woken up on and off, and my kids have been having a bit of trouble some nights too, depending on what has happened during the day.
Being a carer can be lonely too, so if you are making an after-midnight cup of something hot, and wonder who else might be doing that too, maybe have a look-in here and see if anyone else is about.
@Ali11, I'm trying to remember if you've discovered the gardening thread? If not, I can tag you in to it. That's where I'm most likely to put garden pics.
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Ali11Senior Contributor
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Is that the Self Care - Gardening thread @Smc? If so, I'm in that one so will try make sure to check in each week
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Birthday cake for @Determined who aged a little yesterday
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SmcSenior Contributor
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Good to hear it was a "Happy Birthday" @Determined.
For those not in the know- the Ulysses Motorcycle club is restricted to those intrepid over 40 years old bikers. 😄 They get the name from the Greek Ulysses, who got restless in his old age and went adventuring...again.
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
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Love the cake @Former-Member you even got the brand right 😊
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SmcSenior Contributor
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Full poem by Tennyson here if anyone's feeling like being intellectual. It's actually quite enjoyable once you get your head around the old English.
It little profits that an idle king, By this still hearth, among these barren crags, Match'd with an aged wife, I mete and dole Unequal laws unto a savage race, That hoard, and sleep, and feed, and know not me. I cannot rest from travel: I will drink Life to the lees: All times I have enjoy'd Greatly, have suffer'd greatly, both with those That loved me, and alone, on shore, and when Thro' scudding drifts the rainy Hyades Vext the dim sea: I am become a name; For always roaming with a hungry heart Much have I seen and known; cities of men And manners, climates, councils, governments, Myself not least, but honour'd of them all; And drunk delight of battle with my peers, Far on the ringing plains of windy Troy. I am a part of all that I have met; Yet all experience is an arch wherethro' Gleams that untravell'd world whose margin fades For ever and forever when I move. How dull it is to pause, to make an end, To rust unburnish'd, not to shine in use! As tho' to breathe were life! Life piled on life Were all too little, and of one to me Little remains: but every hour is saved From that eternal silence, something more, A bringer of new things; and vile it were For some three suns to store and hoard myself, And this gray spirit yearning in desire To follow knowledge like a sinking star, Beyond the utmost bound of human thought.
This is my son, mine own Telemachus, To whom I leave the sceptre and the isle,— Well-loved of me, discerning to fulfil This labour, by slow prudence to make mild A rugged people, and thro' soft degrees Subdue them to the useful and the good. Most blameless is he, centred in the sphere Of common duties, decent not to fail In offices of tenderness, and pay Meet adoration to my household gods, When I am gone. He works his work, I mine.
There lies the port; the vessel puffs her sail: There gloom the dark, broad seas. My mariners, Souls that have toil'd, and wrought, and thought with me— That ever with a frolic welcome took The thunder and the sunshine, and opposed Free hearts, free foreheads—you and I are old; Old age hath yet his honour and his toil; Death closes all: but something ere the end, Some work of noble note, may yet be done, Not unbecoming men that strove with Gods. The lights begin to twinkle from the rocks: The long day wanes: the slow moon climbs: the deep Moans round with many voices. Come, my friends, 'T is not too late to seek a newer world. Push off, and sitting well in order smite The sounding furrows; for my purpose holds To sail beyond the sunset, and the baths Of all the western stars, until I die. It may be that the gulfs will wash us down: It may be we shall touch the Happy Isles, And see the great Achilles, whom we knew. Tho' much is taken, much abides; and tho' We are not now that strength which in old days Moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are; One equal temper of heroic hearts, Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
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Haha @Smc.. it was only recently I realised that I qualified for Ulysses, I have always associated Ulysses with old people 😱 🤯
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
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I usually like the old English @Smc but my tired mind is protesting reading that (or trying to) at the moment. LoL.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Souls that toiled thought and wrought with me ... ??
Is that an old fashioned way of saying bio-psycho-social ??
On ya @Determined tho can only love the idea .. of a bike ride
@Former-Member@Smc@Faith-and-Hope@Ali11
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SmcSenior Contributor
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@Appleblossom, probably. Or in plainspeak, friends who've lived life with me. 🙂
@Determined, there's a few lines that always jump out at me- " 't is not to late to seek a newer world....to sail beyond the setting sun.... Tho' much is taken, much abides;... Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will, to find, to seek, to strive, and not to yeild." My Yr. 7-8 English teacher introduced our class to this poem. I loved it then, still love the "never too late for another adventure" attitude of it. 🙂
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