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Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hi All

There is a thread operating on the Lived Experience Forum under Night Shift where members who are having trouble sleeping for any reason give a bit of a shout-out, to see if there is anyone else sleepless and looking for company. It's been such a great thing, I thought I would start one over here too.

I have had the odd few nights where I have woken up on and off, and my kids have been having a bit of trouble some nights too, depending on what has happened during the day.

Being a carer can be lonely too, so if you are making an after-midnight cup of something hot, and wonder who else might be doing that too, maybe have a look-in here and see if anyone else is about.

☕️

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😊 Thank you so much @PeppiPatty ..... but I didn't paint this one ....

I will accept the compliment tho cos I could have painted it .... and probably will next time I knock over a cup of coffee ... ❣

I am going to go go looking for more "coffee-spill" art .... I like it .... both for the concept and for the art itself .... ❣

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@Faith-and-Hope

Your artwork is beautiful. Im positive your artwork is better than that.

This ismy rose I painted today..I was thinking of you when I was painting it....notice the liquid paper because I thought I had no white ink.......

lol

PP

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Hi @PeppiPatty

Thank you so much for posting this beautiful rose .... it has really touched my heart.

Pressures and chaos are bubbling to the surface all over my family, and I don't always know what to do to try to contain it .... and I am tired .... not from lack of sleep .... just tired from keeping on .... holding it all together .... and I know that you know what I mean.

It was such a joy to come wandering around the forums and find your painting here.

🌷💗💕

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Hi All
Things are sure active today..was just checking and tried reading through it all.

@Faith-and-Hope - big hugs are needed 💕 Hope the school finds a way for D3!

It's been so exhausting today and such an anxious day. Work deadlines are looming and things aren't moving. I am tired and sick (think caught it from my partner) but I can't take a rest as deadlines unfortunately need be met so need to soldier on!

Good thing is the partner came by and took me out to movies before he is off to Melb. He was in his sweet and caring mode which was refreshing and spoke about things at home so that put my mind at ease. He is thinking of heading overseas after melb. I encouraged him as it will give him a breather. He was already stressed or pre empting that his first week be crap cause mum and bro will ruin it from here with the need of him to return. Said to him don't let them - if possibly try not think about home. They are adults and can settle between themselves and when you return they still be there. Hopefully that resides a little with him.

Well bedtime for me now! 😴😪😴😪

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Good morning @Faith-and-Hope

Yes they are all over their colds and back to work

Back to work is another subject -- but that is life xx

sending you hugs for today

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Good morning @Shaz51 ..... 😊

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Dear @Anony18

How are you, I may have met you loosely in last couple of days but hello to you now.

I like your advise to your partner, in that he needs to take care of himself from his family. Cheers to you.

What do you do for relaxation ?

I'm working hard at doing some artwork this week so I get some time of me time.......it's going to an elderly woman I know but the artwork made me feel very special when I was doing it.

yawn, off to work I go.......

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'Morning @Anony18 @PeppiPatty and anyone else who's around ....

Wishing you good energy for your day ....

🌷💜

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Dearest @Faith-and-Hope

Just to let you know that your on my mind.

You are fragile.

Like a cup of coffee spilling, a yummy cuppa spilling on the table and forming into a beaut piece of artwork might be your sign to be gentle.

I will always commend Apple @Appleblossom for reminding me of this about myself and now it's my turn to remind you of this in you.

I've got to race off to work/ Im working too hard and it's getting to me but I'm lucky enough to get to the beach a couple of times during the day to think nothing. I'm wondering if you can remind yourself of the little steps:

And plan your days for a iittle while like this: FOR example:

8am ......wake up .

8.15am ......shower

9am..........coffee, breakfast. K off to school.

9.30am.....work hard at X

10am...time out 10 minutes. Shut eyes

10.30am.....do X

10.33......time out. Shut eyes

??PP x

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Hi @Faith-and-Hope - just popping in. Already anxious from waking up. This is my mini breather before I have to carry on. I hear the rain pouring outside!

@PeppiPatty - A great big HELLO to you!

I was glad i was able to give him that advice. It is the rare opportunities I get to as he is not a very open person. As he responded to me the Sunday prior - no one knows about how depressed he really is other than his psych and me (whether it is cause I just ask the right questions or he opens up to me without realising). He is a bit of a funny one. He starts talking to me and says he doesn't want to think or talk about it but tends to carry on. But it is good that I know the chaos with his home life and hope I can try to be some form of positivity and stress relief in time. Let's hope he takes my advice. When it comes to family it can be a bit hard at first to separate yourself from them and think about your own needs.

I like to watch movies and I do dance as well. Tennis season will be starting as well soon. I decided to get back into it. Got a concert in a few weeks so lots of prep! Your painting is amazing. I wish I was that artistic.

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