Angels333Senior Contributor
Self Harm
It's ruining my life
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Self Harm
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
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Oh @Angels333 im hearing you. I know work is difficult snd been redeployed brings on anxiety for you.
I hope you enjoy it snd your manager is nice. Thinking of you ❤️
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MDTSenior Contributor
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These days people are more understanding @Angels333
I hope that hour new deployment is good. It'll be a good chance to build some social stuff too hey.
I hope that hour new deployment is good. It'll be a good chance to build some social stuff too hey.
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TABSenior Contributor
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thats normal @Angels333 its been long documented that people not working lose desire to work very quickly lol , youll be okay once you get there
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Angels333Senior Contributor
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Hey @MDT @TAB @BlueBay thanks for your words of encouragement. I know this will be good for me in the long run. And I do care about the environment so cleaning up rubbish is important.
There is a part of me that never want's to go back to work..... swim teaching or redeployment. But I don't really have an option.... you're so right @TAB the desire to work really faded fast for me....
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TABSenior Contributor
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it will get easier, try not to think about it too much @Angels333 turning up is the main thing, then it will become new norm 
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MolliexSenior Contributor
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Hi @Angels333 - you will be able to do this. It will be hard to get motivated at the beginning, but after a short while I am sure it will become routine. I am glad that you have a job to be redeployed to - better than unemployment in the longrun. You have so many coping strategies to deal with anxiety, you will do it, I know you will. Also, remind yourself it's completely normal to be anxious when starting a new job and meeting new people; most people experience this, even those without MH issues.
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Angels333Senior Contributor
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I had group therapy today which was a disaster, we have now had 2 facilitators change in the last 5 weeks.
I feel like I'm having a panic attack. I think it's about work. So much anxiety tonight.
@Molliex @TAB @MDT @BlueBay @Former-Member @Shaz51
Not sure who else to tag....
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MDTSenior Contributor
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Hey @Angels333
I'm about to head to bed so may not reply.
Why did they change them for ?
I'm about to head to bed so may not reply.
Why did they change them for ?
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Sorry you had a double bunger, @Angels333
High staff turnover is a huge problem in mental health services. HUGE.
You can see the value of the work, but still, if it is not valued in the workplace.. can be hard. Teaching swimming would prbably take a LOT of energy.
Take Care
Apple
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TABSenior Contributor
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Hopefully things settle down @Angels333 its hard when belief and or trust is suspended .Hope you feel a bit better today
