Angels333Senior Contributor
Self Harm
It's ruining my life
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Angels333Senior Contributor
It's ruining my life
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Angels333Senior Contributor
One of my friends from DBT and also a social friends committed suicide yesterday I'm in shock.
@Former-Member
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
@Angels333
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Condolences
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That's awful to hear @Angels333, I'm so sorry
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How are you coping?
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
That is awful @Angels333 Take care of yourself now Hon. Are you being given extra support from your DBT group?
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Angels333Senior Contributor
I'm not really coping. I'm desperate for answers. She wasn't in my group anymore as we both stopped at Christmas. But we were social friends.
Very connected through our trauma. I notified my psychologist who may in turn notify the hospital
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
That is quite natural @Angels333 When we lose someone in our lives so suddenly there are always so many questions but unfortunately not often any answers. I hope your psychologist gets back to you quickly and you can talk with them. Just get through minute by minute Hon - it really is awful for you but it is also really importnt right now you look after yourself. Hugs and hugs ![]()
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
@Angels333
It is important the hospital is informed.
Cocoon yourself a little, so you can journey through this, and not take on more suffering.
Protective Cocoon
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Angels333Senior Contributor
I have been absent for sometime. My mental health has affected my central nervous system a condition called functional neurological disorder FND I am in a wheelchair, I've lost my job. I have numerous dissociative blackouts a day. I am so depressed about this.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
sending you lots of hugs my @Angels333
sitting with you and having a cuppa
who would like to join us @Appleblossom , @Zoe7 , @Former-Member , @Molliex , @cloudcore
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
@Angels333
It is good to see you, although I am very sad to hear how your physical health has been impacted.
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