Angels333Senior Contributor
Self Harm
It's ruining my life
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Angels333Senior Contributor
It's ruining my life
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Angels333Senior Contributor
Having faltered with self harm knocks my confidence @Zoe7 but I'm also tired of being anxious, I just hope for a peaceful shift not one where the parents expect miracles all the time x
XOXO ANGELS333
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I totally hear you about the parent aspect to your lessons @Angels333 The kids can only do what they can do and what you are able to teach them in such a short space of time. If they are wanting greater progress then maybe they should take their kids for extra lessons themselves ...just sayin' 👍You are quite obviously great at what you do Hon but also cannot do it for them. Don't place any of that extra pressure on yourself - go to the pool, do your job and go home - then put it out of your mind until next lessaon. Also don't worry about your 'slip' - it happens and is now behind you - you got this Hon ![]()
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Angels333Senior Contributor
Thanks @Zoe7 you're so right with your advice xx
XOXO ANGELS333
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Oh @Angels333 Maybe not right but understand the pressures you place on yourself and how that anxiety can increase when we do that ...but you are so much more than your anxiety and you can no doubt do your job very well (we have seen that with the positives you have had said to you and you maintaining your job even with everything else going on). So Hon I have no doubt you will be your usual professional self tomorrow and whatever those parents have to say - let it wash off you quickly. We are all human and can only do what we can do - and that is enough ...you are enough ![]()
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Angels333Senior Contributor
Thanks @Zoe7 thanks for encouraging me
XOXO ANGELS333
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Anytime Hon - you got this @Angels333 💕😁👍
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Angels333Senior Contributor
@Molliex @Zoe7 @MDT @Former-Member @theposterboy @Faith-and-Hope @Shaz51 @BlueBay @Appleblossom @Bunniekins @TAB @Adge @eth
I had a nice day with Mr Angels S1 S2 and D3 we went to a local restaurant, ate so much food, had a couple of glasses of wine..
All for my birthday today, it was good to just spend time with each other having conversations...
XOXO ANGELS333
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MDTSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
OMG @Angels333 The happiest of birtdays to you sweetheart. What a lovely day you seem to have had - I am so happy for you. Hugs and hugs and hugs to you gorgeous - you so deserved such a lovely day 💛🧡💚💙💜
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MolliexSenior Contributor
Happy Birthday lovely @Angels333 🎂🎉🎉🎉
I'm so glad you had a nice day today to celebrate. It was also my birthday this week, so we're almost birthday buddies 💚💚
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