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Hi @Ybother

The way that I understand trauma is that it is experienced at a given time.

Are you having memories, or recollections of experiencing trauma at some time in the past.

I know that memories and recollections can be as difficult to deal with as the original event.

HenryX

@HenryX

I just want out

@Ybother

You have told us that you want out. Is there anything that we can do for you?

HenryX

Hi@Ybother

I hear you, now I am beginning to understand the feelings that you have expressed to us.

HenryX

Hi @Ybother

There is the difference. You have no need to apologise for something that has happened to you.

It is an awful experience that you are dealing with. That certainly does not make you anything other than a person who has had a very bad and awful experience.

Thankyou for talking with us about your feelings and the reasons for them

HenryX

Hi @Ybother

I don't know if you are still here with us, however, you will receive notification of this message.

A little while ago, during our 'talk', I took the oppportunity to look at some of your other posts. From them, I can appreciate that you are a caring person who connects easily with other people. Hopefully, those connections are made about good and positive events and feelings as well as other not so pleasant experiences.

Because of your posts on other threads and what you have let us know tonight, I believe that I like you as a person, as I think others would also.

I do hope that we can 'talk' again, however you may be feeling at any given time. Thankyou for your openness and response to my questions tonight and I am looking forward to 'talking' (chatting here) with you again, however you are feeling.

With My Very Best Wishes

HenryX

@HenryX

I really don't feel comfortable here anymore and honestly I feel like I'm just s joke to everyone.

I don't think people take me seriously 😒 it's been going on for far to long,

I can't deal with this anymore I want out.

im sick of everyone laughing at me, I undermine the things that happened to me and now my head is a total mess because of what happened.

it's not going to get any better I just want to get out of this place

Hello @Ybother

I am taking you seriously. What I ask you to do, if you will, is to see the bad and awful events, that you have experienced, as something separate from who you are. You are a great deal more than those memories and recollections.

It is clear, that what you have experienced is probably a vivid memory for you. However, that memory does not make you who you are.

You speak of “it's been going on for too long” and that “I can't deal with this anymore....”. Have you been able to seek assistance from a person qualified to do so, who is prepared to work through your memories with you?

HenryX