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Starting the Conversation

NUGGETContributor

Starting the Conversation

Hi Everyone,

I'm new here. 🙂

I need some advice on how to tell my family about my partner.

We have been together for almost a year and he suffers from Bipolar Disorder and BPD. He also struggles with drug (illegal) dependency. I have a feeling that my dad is aware of my partner's issues, however I have not discussed it with him. I recently had a breakdown due to not looking after myself whilst caring for my partner. I now feel like I should tell my dad, who also suffers from mental health and was drug dependant. I know that he would understand and it would be helpful but at the same time I dont want my dad to judge my partner in any way because of it.

I just need some advice on how to start the conversation.

Thanks in advance.

N

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In response to: Starting the Conversation

NUGGETContributor

Re: Starting the Conversation

@Ali11 just an update, its been a good last few days. We are planning to have a weekend away this weekend just locally. We both agree that it will be a nice change in environment.

I hope you are having a great week so far!

N

In response to: Re: Starting the Conversation

Ali11Senior Contributor

Re: Starting the Conversation

That's great @NUGGET! Hope you've had a great weekend, we can't wait to hear all about it.

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