oceangirlSenior Contributor
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I thought I would start a new discussion/thread for us to check in, and especially when needing extra support. I hope this helps 😃
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
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TY @utopia 
Hugs back to you my friend
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins Thanks for your message I had to get some sleep because I needed to be able to function today.
@MDTThanks for your kind words and support buddy
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
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@TABI can relate to how you're feeling. People don't make things easy. And the reason why you get so anxious because you take things to heart. I am not good at dealing with pushy or confrontational people. At the end of the day it is just a job. Hope you're feeling more relaxed. Catch up with ya soon buddy.
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
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Thank you my beautiful sister @Shaz51
Here for you too.
How is Mr Shaz I hope he is behaving himself???
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TABSenior Contributor
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yes I can be thin skinned esp in work situations and with conditions/perceptions/bosses
I realised recently that I used to walk off jobs with like practice work with father, I would always have to come up with a better way than he was using, I mean what would he know, having done job for thirty years?
I was creating a situation to get out of work and think have been doing it ever since. Thats worrying. Thanks for listening @oceangirl Over the years I have come up with all sorts of survival tricks, but if there is no catalyst, like praise, felling valued or appreciated or a 'mate' there who 'gets' you its just well hard work
I run these things past friends who are the opposite, who should have left jobs, wo are driven and diciplined; not much sympathy there.
Yes, thats what I used to say ..its just a job.. not feeling guilty this time at least
sorry I've taken over your original post with my whinging. I hope you find a work around or a solution to the pushy people thing. I usually avoid them but thats a win for them dunno
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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morning @utopia im really glad to hear things are going well for you. you've had such a hard time of things so hearing that its better for you is heart warming.
What have you been up to lately? How is your son going?
What have you been up to lately? How is your son going?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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morning @oceangirl
im glad that you have a new found perspective, it can be hard to see things when we are living these experiences rather then seeing it from the outside 🙂
appointments, self care and taking care of Milo sounds like they are your high priorities which is more then ok 👍👍
Being mentally drained is very tiring, even though we aren't physically doing anything. its much the same with my pop. a lot of my things I do aren't physical ie pushing wheelchairs but he is draining mentally so my energy levels do drop quite abit too. so I can understand how being drained can upset the emotional balance and energy levels too.
Im glad that you are feeling better, here with a listening ear if talking about the other things bothering you will be most helpful
im glad that you have a new found perspective, it can be hard to see things when we are living these experiences rather then seeing it from the outside 🙂
appointments, self care and taking care of Milo sounds like they are your high priorities which is more then ok 👍👍
Being mentally drained is very tiring, even though we aren't physically doing anything. its much the same with my pop. a lot of my things I do aren't physical ie pushing wheelchairs but he is draining mentally so my energy levels do drop quite abit too. so I can understand how being drained can upset the emotional balance and energy levels too.
Im glad that you are feeling better, here with a listening ear if talking about the other things bothering you will be most helpful
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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Not doing much of anything @outlander .
My son is well. A few more weeks and then it's year 11 exams. And school will be over with for this year.
How have you been?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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wow how time does fly hey @utopia
I hope he goes well in the yr 11 exams. 🙂
I am on and off ok, more lows then highs but am managing better when feeling low. Im mostly recovering from surgery atm so have been having a break from most things except from caring and the kids. horses and that roles reduced for the next 2 weeks.
I hope he goes well in the yr 11 exams. 🙂
I am on and off ok, more lows then highs but am managing better when feeling low. Im mostly recovering from surgery atm so have been having a break from most things except from caring and the kids. horses and that roles reduced for the next 2 weeks.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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hello my sister @oceangirl
how are you xx
we find out the results of mr shaz`z sunspots biopys on friday xx
