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Career Chat // Interview Do's and Don'ts // CLOSED

Career Chat // Interview Do's and Don'ts // CLOSED

Howdy everyone,

This week's Career Chat will look at the Do's and Don'ts of job interviews.

Job interviews can be a bit of a mystery - what are employers looking for? What questions are they going to ask? How can I make a good impression?

During this session we will be taking your questions about job interviews and also looking for your experience and advice to others.

Our host, @Renstar from Ostara will also share tips and strategies that everyone can benefit from!

@DefiantPanda - welcome to Career Chat!

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Re: Career Chat // This Friday, 10am AEST // Interview Do's and Don'ts

In the interview: DO ask questions.

In her article ‘Don’t ask that: dumb questions to ask in an interview!’ By Stephanie Castellano she claims people ask questions that are ‘dumb’ in her experience they are things like …

“How late do you consider too late for showing up to work?”

“When can I retire?”

“Can I take a three-week vacation?”

“When can I get a raise?”

So DON’T ask those questions!!

Instead DO ask …

“What is a typical day like?”

“What qualities would make someone successful in this position?”

“What do you like most about working here?”

“Who was in this position previously, and why did he or she leave?”

DO ask questions that could give you valuable insights into what it’s really like to work at a particular company:

Stephanie says ...

“When first meeting with potential employers, it’s better to pose big-picture questions so you can
discover how aligned your skills and personality are with the role and the organization… You can delve into the details in future meetings.”

DO ask questions, practice them first with a trusted friend and work out whether they’re DO’s or DONT’S. Sometimes we just don't realise the question may not be well perceived that's why practicing is so important to do with someone you trust.

Do you have someone to practice interviews with? Have you ever asked something that was not well received?

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Re: Career Chat // This Friday, 10am AEST // Interview Do's and Don'ts

I love the little smiley emjoi reactions!

What has helped me through interviews is the perspective of the interview isn't just for them to pass judgement on me, it's also for me to pass judgement on them!

Is it a place I want to work?

Did I get a good vibe from them?

Now that I know more about the role, is it still something I want?

That calms the nerves for me a lot!

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Re: Career Chat // This Friday, 10am AEST // Interview Do's and Don'ts

Well we have come to the end of another awesome Forum!

Big thanks to @NikNik and @2or3thingsIknow for sharing today, I hope you and others got something from the many DO'S and DON'TS we shared.

I look forward to catching up next week, same day and same place!

Enjoy your weekend and remember if you DO have an interview coming up or if you know someone who does, refer to this Forum for lots of DO’s and DONT’S and also remember to remain confident in the knowledge that if all else fails, you did your best and that’s all you can ask for.

Look forward to more CareerChat soon!

Renstar

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Re: Career Chat // This Friday, 10am AEST // Interview Do's and Don'ts

Thanks @NikNik yes absolutely - knowing they're just as much under the microscope them as you are is very calming.

I love the REFRAME going on here ... looking at things from a different perspective is very helpful for calming nerves!

Maybe we can discuss more about calming nerves in future CareerChats!

Great session today @NikNik and @2or3thingsIknow.

Thanks again for sharing

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Re: Career Chat // This Friday, 10am AEST // Interview Do's and Don'ts

Hi peeps. Great discussion, and some very important DOs and DON'Ts raised about interviews. Thanks for sharing your expertise... 🙂

Sorry I missed the live chat phase... life got in the way...

I would like to add a small thing. Eye contact. When we are nervous, we can tend to avoid eye contact, but I feel it is an important way of presenting yourself as open, honest and confident.

When you shake hands, make eye contact. When you ask or answer a question, make eye contact. When you are being interviewed by a panel (more than one person), make eye contact mainly with the person you're actively interacting with, but don't forget the others.

But not scary serial killer eye contact... hahaha... just calm and casual if you can pull it off. 🙂

Also, most people have verbal tics that they fall back to when they're nervous. Try to avoid repeating them too much "Yes, you know, I had a time when, you know, I had to, you know, manage a store, you know, by myself... you know..."

Work out what you want to do with your hands. Fidgeting too much can be very distracting, and it broadcasts your nervousness to the room.

I sweat a lot, especially when nervous, and sometimes am prone to excessive blushing if I'm in a wrong head space. I take a sip of water and try to relax, and try not to focus too much on the blushing and the flop sweat...

Definitely be yourself. Otherwise it will come back to bite you.

And definitely interview them too. They need to be a good enough employer for you. That helps to balance the power equation during the interview.

Humour is important for me. If they can't laugh, then it's too serious a workplace for me. I've worked jobs too serious... all work and no play makes Silenus a dull boy. But of course it's all about balance... don't overdo it.

Once, I was being interviewed before Christmas for a technical consultant role at Hewlett Packard... suits, suits and more suits. At one point during the interview I was getting nervous, so I held up my hand to stop the question and said "Sorry to interrupt, but I have got to know - is that Christmas tree in the foyer real or plastic?" The guy interviewing me said "I don't know. Let's go and have a look." And we did! For the record, the tree was real, and I got the job... hahaha... it was a bit of a gamble, but I had read him right...

In my 20-year work career, I've made it to the interview stage 7 times, and got the job 6 of those times...

But I don't mind admitting that since my last major depression and meltdown, reconnecting with my former confidence and level of functioning has been quite difficult. I fear going for a job where stress and long hours will kick off my bipolar in full swing again. Managing my fears and expectations will be key to my ongoing progress...

Hugs and happy vibes beaming to you all, and to anyone going for interviews -:be yourself, shine, and best of luck! 🙂

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Re: Career Chat // This Friday, 10am AEST // Interview Do's and Don'ts

Thanks for the tag @NikNik - much appreciated.

Hugs and lotsa them there happy vibes beaming your way. 🙂
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