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Deep emotional pains

MeowmySenior Contributor

Deep emotional pains

Hi @outlander @CheerBear and everyone. I experience deep emotional pains in relation to my childhood under the thumb of my father and his demanding control of my young adult life, that I missed significant opportunities to life happinesses.

In the past, the intense pains sent me so emotional and distressed that I stopped my medication and became very sick over and over again.I had fifteen admissions in ten years.

Now I realize I have to deal with that in order to live without admissions.

I hope to find support, compassions from everyone and we can help each other in dealing with our deep issues.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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awwww my super @Bunniekins , sending you lots of tender hugs

sooo glad that @eth was with you xx

glad you feel a bit better now

is it ok if I have a read from last night -- is it on he long rave xx

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Shaz51 Thank you for asking and of course :)xxxx

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MeowmySenior Contributor

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@Bunniekins That is wise. I will start again to orrow too, in early afternoon. I am feeling better and enjoyed watching TV this afternoon. Thanks for care.

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MeowmySenior Contributor

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@Shaz51 @thanks for care. Have a good evening.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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you too @Meowmy

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MeowmySenior Contributor

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@Shaz51 @Bunniekins @oceangirl @Zoe7 @Matt12 Hello everyone, I just thought I would write now about this thread. I have come to terms with my past, who I am and who my parents are. I have forgiven their mistakes. I now don’t dwell on this issue anymore and move on with my life. I may have done it too quickly and forcefully that I sank in deep depression and severe anxiety. I am now psychologically relaxed about my parents. I need to slowly build my own life with small steps and learn to have patience.

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Meowmy Hi Meowmy and good morning. My father was a non functioning alcoholic and did some pretty dreadful things throughout my life. He has coloured my views on men in particular. Over time I have learned to forgive him because it is better for myself too otherwise I will carry his dealings around with me for the rest of my life and I refuse to let that happen. So yes I think you are also doing the right thing re parents. Sometimes it is best to let things go for our own sanity. Love greenpeaxxxx

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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@Meowmy We cannot change our past but we can be the architects in our future. That does take a lot of strength to do though so wishing your strength and courage to move forward

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MeowmySenior Contributor

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@Zoe7 @Thanks so much. I am hoping to make baby steps forward. Bit by bit. This afternoon, hope to get some house work done. Wish you a great day. Take care.

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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Bit by bit is all you need to do @Meowmy Any progress forward is good progress. Housework. sleeping and footy watching (if I am awake) for me this afternoon so much the same as you. Hope you are having a good afternoon

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