Hi @Hope4me
Thankyou for your honesty.
Unfortunately, you have hit on exactly one of the reasons why
a) I have needed for my own safety to bring this issue to light; and
b) Why it has had such difficulty and faced such oppostion for me to speak out.
I appreciate your candidness and would like to ask you what sort of trigger warning would have prepared you for the difficulty in reading these posts?
I would also like to reflect back to you that everything you have said is unfortunately also true for me.
I would request that you read no further except to understand that in this circumstance there will be confrontation to the world view of others as they come to understand that there was and is more to the story than what the status quo would indicate
again URGENT: PLEASE READ NO FURTHER IF POSTS THAT CHALLENGE THE STATUS QUO ARE GOING TO BE FOUND DISTRESSSING. THE POST BELOW CHALLENGES THE STATUS QUO BELIEFS IN 'MENTAL ILLNESS' - AND POSITIONS THEM AS ONE WAY OF LOOKING AT THE WORLD: IT ALSO DISCUSSES HUMAN RIGHTS ABUSES AND EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSES THAT HAVE BEEN EXPERIENCED IN THE NAME OF 'MENTAL HEALTH CARE' PLEASE DO NOT READ FURTHER IF YOU WILL FIND A CHALLENGE TO THIS WORLD VIEW DISTRESSING. IT ALSO DESCRIBES VIOLENCE IN A CONTEXT OF CARE.
FINALLY IT DISCUSSES EXPERIENCES THAT I HAVE HAD WITH OTHERS WHO HAVE BEEN IN CARING PROFESSIONS RE-EXPERIENCING THEIR BEHAVIOUR AS HARM NOT CARE -THIS HAS BEEN KNOWN TO BE SHOCKING FOR MANY IN THE CARING PROFESSION AND PATIENTS WHO HAVE ACCEPTED THE STATUS WHO HAVE EXPEREINCED DISTRESSED OR LASHED OUT AS A RESULT OF FINDING I HAVE A DIFFERENT EXPERIENCE. HOWEVER IT IS EXTREMELY DISTRESSING TO ME TO REMAIN IN SILENCE SO PLEASE DO NOT READ FURTHER IF IT IS DISTRESSING TO YOU - BUT PLEASE DO NOT ATTEMPT TO PREVENT ME FROM TALKING TO OTHERS ON THIS FORUM ABOUT IT WHO UNDERSTAND AND EMPATHISE WITH MY EXPERIENCE OR WHO MIGHT HAVE EXPERIENCED IT THEMSELVES.
FINAL WARNING: BASED ON WHAT YOU HAVE SAID IT WILL BE CHALLENGING AND DISTRESSING TO READ FURTHER, SO I HIGHLY RECOMMEND YOU DON'T, I WILL INCLUDE WHAT I NEED TO SAY BECAUSE IT IS IMPORTANT AND I WOULD LIKE THE MODERATORS AND/OR THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND MY PERSPECTIVE OR HAVE A SIMILAR ONE THEMSELVES TO BE ABLE TO READ IT IF THEY WANT TO FOR MY OWN SAFETY AND THAT OF OTHERS WHO MAY HAVE THE SAME DANGERS AND VULNERABILITIES AS I DO IN THIS SITUATION.
FINALLY I NEED TO EXPRESS STRONG CONCERNS AND DISAGREEMENT WITH SOME OF THE MATERIAL IN YOUR POST SO PLEASE DON'T READ FURTHER AS YOU HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED THAT CHALLENGES TO YOUR PROFESSIONAL POINT OF VIEW, ARE EXPERIENCED AS DISTRESSING.
I WISH YOU PEACE AND GOODWILL BUT PLEASE DO NOT READ ON, THE REST OF THIS POST IS NOT FOR THOSE WHO FIND IT DIFFICULT TO DISCUSS CHALLENGES TO THE STATUS QUO OR WAYS IN WHICH PROTECTION OF THE STATUS QUO IS EXPERIENCED AS HARMFUL BY SOME OF THOSE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED IT.
For anyone who chose to read further, I need to make it clear that I have faced real abuse and I do need to be able to speak about it, that the status quo and the offence of those who support it has long been used to silence me from speaking about, gaining support for or resolving abuse.
If this is distressing to some for various reasons, that is understandable so I sought to ascertain what would have been an adequate trigger warning so I can be sure to include it in future. But I would also ask those who find challenges to the status quo, particularly on the basis of human rights and abuse distressing to consider the trigger warnings of their own: they may not realise it but I am a genuine victim of violence abuse and exploitation and the only thing that would keep me safe from such things in the future would be for me not to be subjected to any mental health act. When they advocate against this it is terrifying to me and I expereince all the emotions that the other poster described and more.
It's unfortunately commonly the case that someone aligned with the status quo often speaks in outrage when I describe what I went through as abuse: even though it literally involved repeated physical violence. It's not uncommon that these turn out to be people who have been involved in referring their loved ones to services where they also experienced similar things, who are being protected from this realisation by denial, but it isn't always the case.
The abuse and harm I experienced was so common and consistent that those who were involved in my regular support: often in the same systems would ask me "why did you go there? you knew what would happen" as it were my fault that I was misunderstood and subjected to violence for refusing the explanations.
When I am silenced from speaking about the harm that was done to me because others find it threatening to their world view and their experience is priviledged over mine, I also suffer.
I am very sorry that others suffered, but I need it to be understood that I suffered too from what they said and the way they have posted makes me feel terrified that I will be forced into silence again because their point of view (that violence doesn't happen, that 'mental illness is real' and not one way of looking at things) - is priviledged over the reality of my experience - even though it is demonstrable that 'mental illness' is an ideology the idea that it is not is so privileged that people who dare to question are often received with outrage. this is why it has taken the support of the UN, the British Psychological society division of clinical psychology and many other brave people in positions of trust for things to get this far. The absolute trust in the the status quo was so powerful that nobody was even allowed to examine it - without even providing any physical evidence for critical analysis the statement is made "how dare you question the phsyical evidence?" - what physical evidence? . So the best way forward is for each of us to discuss what is needed to protect the other going forward *without* silencing. I don't wish to silence you from sharing your view or opinion or experience- but it is threatening and distressing to me, I would have benefitted from preparation of a better trigger warning too. Unfortunately, it would seem that some consciousness raising would be necessary for the trigger to be recognised: the trigger for me is that when people advocate things that put me in real physical and psychological danger.
Trigger warning: detailled description of things that are likely to challenge world view by disclosing harm that I have experienced from things that others have faith in.
When I read the post of the person that I replied to in this thread I was absolutely gutted. I had to try three times before I could even write a response and that is why my responses have been so long winded.
It is often the case that people find these discussions extremely confronting precisely because they actually require a re-examination of what a person did or had done to them. But they also involve people finally being able to talk about what they experienced.
If I asked myself: what trigger warning could have been written on the post which would make me comfortable with it? The answer comes back sadly that none would suffice.
Unfortunately what we are talking about is deeply painful. I suppose the best I could come up with is "trigger warning: includes disclosure of opinions that others will find extremely threatening as they include suggestions that human rights should be limited for people who are perceived as different based on subjective interpretations of their thoughts/feelings and behaviour"
I think this is very challenging and I am very sorry that anyone has found it distressing.
But I do need you to understand that I found their posts and position very frightening and distressing too and I also would have apprecieated stronger trigger warnings
We represent two sides of a coin:
a) The people who have experienced Violence, abuse and exploitation and recognised it as such
b) The people who have experienced deprivation of their liberty and not considered it to be abusive
a) The people who believe that human rights should not be tied to subjective perceptions of dangerousnewss and who want the same rights as every other citizen to be considered innocent of an actaul crime until proven guilty to lose their right to freedom; and
b) The people who believe that it is acceptable to believe those who are different need to be locked up because of what they might do.
There is more to it than that.
I have to admit that I am starting to find the tone a little frightening and seek protection from the implication that I should be silenced from discussion without silencing others and assistance in providing the right tirgger warnings. However, I also seek recognition and understanding that some do not seek for the right trigger warnings to be provided, they seek for an absolute silencing of all that they do not want to hear. That I have experienced this silencing multiple times and that it creates a culture of fear in which people can not speak about harm or seek safety (and after all what else is help seeking if not this?) because to speak about harm they implicate that others did harm, and those who are implicated or who resent the implication against others will lash out and attempt to achieve silence on the matter.
I have experienced this many times - sometimes even in the form of physical threats.
I need to be able to challenge the belief systems of others in order to be safe where those belief systems affect me. If others don't want to participate and find the information too threatening to their world view, challenging or retraumatising,there is a genuine need for a better trigger warning system. But it is not ok to silence discussion when people are free not to participate in it and to be fairly and adqueately warned of what the discussion will contain.
Because it is extremely harmful to silence one group of people because another group of people can not accept that their actions, or the actions of others were inadvertenty harmful towards them. And they need to be able to discuss their views for their own safety and to seek help for what they are going through. Not to be silenced because association with the status quo is considered a privilege.
It isn't fair to hide the real harm that I have suffered, that others have suffered or that any of us have suffered because certain others belong to a belief system that thinks it is justified to harm to us on the basis that they found it helpful or believed it to be helpful and now will not countenance any discussion that it may have been otherwise, at least for some.
I have fought very hard to be able to discuss what I have experienced and finally being able to talk about these things and try to resolve them in the open is extremely invaluable. I am happy to put it all behind stronger trigger warnings.
But I do need it to be understood to know that all the things the poster experienced and described in their post I also experienced in the posters' previous post advocating that people needed to be confined and also in the post above. I don't seek to silence the poster, but I do seek for
a) them to provide adequate trigger warnings and to clarify what trigger warnings would suffice to protect them
b) them not be allowed to try to silence me from speaking at all on the basis that they found my post distressing as I also find their post and position distressing for very good reason and it has been by silencing all dissent or engagement that things have got to the point that they have in our community that we need to have royal commissions into the harm done by trusted institutions.
There are things that are worth discussing with regards to the ins and outs of forensic issues where are person has actually committed a crime.
But I personally and many others I know have been subjected to harm and abuse when they did not. And there has never, ever been any physical evidence saying I have a physical malfunction: I have never even had brain scan.
The drugs never helped me and yet they were violently forced on me, I recovered without them
The RCTs consistently show high placebo effects, high intra-group variability and other effects that make them of very questionable efficiacy, the discussion of various biological pathways is often a very underdeveloped science, and it must be considered in conjunction with the vast body of evidence that indicates how these pathways are activated and regulated in real-time by psychosocial factors.
I am happy to put any and all trigger warnings but when people try to say that it's not enough for me to get the warnings right and I need to be silenced - that is not ok
because there are other people who have been abused, harmed and exploited too and we all need to be heard and feel safe to speak about it
It is unfortunately very commonly the case that people who don't want to hear about abuse and harm will not just seek to find a way to know what to read and not to read but will seek to find a way to actually silence the people who need to speak from speaking about it at all.
In my experience this happens commonly where there is familial violence, abuse or inadvertant harm as well as simlar things occurring in institutional settings.
It has often been as a direct act to try and stop people discussing and resolving issues of abuse and harm, particularly emotional harm, that it is claimed they should not be able to speak about what happened because it was 'too distressing' for others, while the distress caused to the victims by things those others said or did, or by the silencing itself is hidden.
We are in need of resolving this matter in a way that harms no persons.
The need to be able to talk about and resolve issues is really important.
I've actually been physically threatened by fellow patients before for talking about how the medical model harmed and didn't help me. they also found it threatening to consider there was any other point of view.
But I didn't create this situation. I am not the one who went around convincing patients, practioners and the public that it was ok to tell people "mental illness is real" - as opposed to "your suffering is very real and mental illness is only one way of looking at it" and "the physical evidence is incrontrovertable" when this was very far from the truth.
I am a victim of those people, as are many others, and it isn't fair to shoot the messenger.
It seems to me that the need here is to ensure that trigger warnings are strong enough and clear enough so that people are protected from reading anythign they don't want to read. But that the rules are fair enough so that no person is allowed to silence another person from speaking at all.
Unfortunately it is exactly this last thing which has been used to prevent the fact of the "mental health" paradigm being only one way of looking at things getting out in the open.