Not sure what to do !!!

@Former-Member

It helps to hear stories with good outcomes. NOt something I had any experience with ...

@Shaz51

Take Heart. One step at a time.

We are backing you here on the forum.

thank you @Former-Member , @Appleblossom

yes i have known for a while that it will happen

going to a information day but it has been cancalled at the moment ,

my specialist is leading towards transplant , so will get tested and go on the list is the next step

mr shaz said he will give me one of his kidneys if he is a match

we are slowly cutting back , yes like to do less before my body decides for me

same as Mr shaz mental and physical health , trying to get him to work less too

Thinking of you and sending warmest wishes @Shaz51 And wonderful to see you too @Former-Member Love to you both xx

Hey @Shaz51

With you.

We had a positive day today, hope it helps, sharing it with you.

Helllo @Wanderer , @eth , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @Adge , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Owlunar , @Faith-and-Hope , @Smc , @Mrsjones , @outlander , @Jacques , @Mazarita

thinking of you and Mr @Former-Member lots today , hope U R OK xx

awww so many decisions to think about

about when ??

mr shaz is just now starting to worry a bit about everything now

mum is getting 6 meals now through meals on wheels

still getting her arm redressed every second day at the hospital

when do i isolate ourselves being self employed

is mowing still ok

cleaning , when do we stop

hi @Shaz51 it is troubling and worrying times.

i think with your self employment being outdoors and not in close contact with anyone, if you wear face masks and use hand sanitiser you guys should be ok, with your health conditions @Shaz51 you might need to be a little more carful and so will your mum. if it is possible maybe try to do some more hobbies maybe? mr shaz could gewt back into photography to help with his anxiety. and maybe you could get some rest over this time as you have been really busy this year.

hugs my dear friend.

thinking of you and mr shaz too

thank you my awesome friend @Jacques

just finding it hard to be the sole decider with everything

mr shaz says he is getting worse with everything

i nderstand @Shaz51 maybe your family could help with the burden, looking after your mum it is not fair you having to do it all on your own with your health problems.

do you think maybe Mr Shaz might go see his doctor about his worsening Anxiety? or his mental health team?

lots oof hugs my friend. your not alone, remember you have such amazing support here to vent and to get support

do you think maybe Mr Shaz might go see his doctor about his worsening Anxiety? -- no he won`t @Jacques

not yet anyway !!

or his mental health team?-- mr shaz has no health team

will be ok my friend xxxx, hugs to you too

i am off to bed now

Goodnight @Shaz51

I'm surprised when many people on forums refer to mental health teams - or assume that we all have one.

I've never heard of or seen such a thing (except on this forum).

No one I know has ever had a MHT - or a pdoc (whatever that is).

Adge