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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Sorry to hear that about Mr Shaz, but that is awesome that he was able to travel around Tasmania. Being in one place for a week does sound relaxing @Shaz51, have you been there before?

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to Darwin and all of the northern territory, yes I have @Ali11

have you travelled much

I have been to england , new zealand , tasmania twice and 3/4 of australia

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@Shaz51

This might be an opportunity for Mum to give respite a go.

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@Former-Member, @Jacques , @Bunniekins

I think the biggest thing for mr shaz is knowing what we are doing , where we are going

with our week away we are flyinf to Darwin , our D1 is picking us up at the airport

and then we don`t know what we are doing for the week and this is playing on mr shaz`z mind

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Perhaps asking D1 what she has in mind for your visit and suggestions of where you might like to go when ypu are visiting might ease his mind @Shaz51

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Oh wow @Shaz51, those are some amazing places. Yep, travel is good for the self-care! Hard to say what the favourite would be though. Are you a city or a nature person?

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@Shaz51

Any chance of devising a bit of a (flexible) travel itinerary with your D1 for the duration of your visit? Uncertainty will inevitably cause anxiety for Mr Shaz.

@Former-Member I agree with you too about trying for respite for @Shaz51 Mum for the week you're away.

Sherry 😀

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a nature person @Ali11

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@Shaz51 my darling is a it like that as far as having to have everything set in stone knowing what is going to happen. I more like to have a loose idea then make it up as.we go along. Having to stick to a schedule is stressifull for me. Not a good fit on holidays for us lol.

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mr shaz has brought up a few things that is worrying him @Former-Member , @Ali11 , @Former-Member

so I am suggesting one day at a time first we are for the 4 days off over easter

mr shaz is smiling

what are we doing over easter --- amm sleeping says mr shaz

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