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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Fairly relaxing day @Shaz51

This morning I went to a morning tea that a friend asked me to, walked home via the supermarket and shop where I get dog treats. This afternoon we picked up some hardware needed to make some garden beds and when we got home I cleaned the car. I cooked a chicken stir fry for tea.

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@Shaz51

Pre dentist visit anxiety = ☹️

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sitting beside you my beautiful friend @Shaz51 . here to listen if you would like to get things off your mind

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thank you my wonderful friends @Jacques @Former-Member

ohh @Jacques ,mr shaz thought the visit to the dentist would be very bad

which ended up better than he thought

just a filling which costed $201 dollars

all good now I did the dishes and the washing

so mr shaz is ready for bed ready for tomorrow xoxo

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i understand @Shaz51 i do the same, i the night before i go through everything that can go wrong, and it never ends up as bad as i thought it would

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yes mr shaz does the same my friend @Jacques

and then it is the after affect of anxiety when it is all over

hugs my friend @Jacques , hope you are ok tonight xxxxx

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yes, it takes a few hours to get the adrenaline out of your system, let alone the anxiety and getting your mind to slow down. mr shaz is so lucky to have you help him do that. im so so proud of him. he did so well. dentists are the worst for anxiety

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and @Jacques I am soo proud of you my awesome friend

and what you said is very true xoxo

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Hello @Jacques , @Former-Member , @Mrsjones , @outlander , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @Adge , @Smc , @Determined , @Owlunar

tank you my awesome friend @Jacques xxoxoxo

today has been busy

got the jobs done and visited my mum for a second

sometimes I feel guilty when I rash in and out of mum`s daily

she makes surei give her a cuddle but i still feel guilty when i leave xxxxx

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@Shaz51 Hey Shaz51 I feel guilty for not seeing my mum in a couple of months :o. I ring every day though but just cannot handle her atm dont know why ..... just need a break.xxx

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