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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Awww @Shaz51 sounds awful - good move to see doc ... I had sore throat and head cold last week and then it passed and I thought I'm ok and went out on weekend - then it went to my chest and now I have coughing chest infection and slight temp ... doc put me on antibiotics 2 days ago - already helping heaps - please rest up and do what doc says so it doesn't get worse - I didn't listen and did too much thinking I was ok 😬... sending you big hugs 🤗 and healing vibes - hope you can sleep ok - lemsip helped me too

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Dear @Shaz51 There is so often that question of when to push on over feeling crook and when to attend to the feelings. I have big issues distinguishing various sickness from emotional feelings.

Hugs, water intake up, and do what you have to Bella.

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hello @Appleblossom , @Sophie1 , @Smc , @frog , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Jacques , @Adge , @eth , @Faith-and-Hope , @Maggie

I have a viral infection

today mum want more independence than usual today , hard finding that balance of doing everything one day and stepping back the next day

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@Shaz51 That sounds hard. You look after your infection if you can. 💙💙💙

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@Shaz51

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Thank you @Former-Member , @Maggie

How are you tonight xxx

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Steady here @Shaz51, tried a new recipe using a bought pad Thai sauce, was not happy with it.

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💗💐💕 @Shaz51 .... get well soon Hon xx

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I hope your recovery is swift @Shaz51 . Did the Dr tell you to rest by any chance?

Sounds difficult with your Mum not knowing how much help she needs from you. Of course she wants to maintain some independence, so I expect its difficult for her too. Oh and did I read on your other thread that you have a mechanical problem with your ute? Hope that gets fixed quickly, as I expect thats your work ute for all the gardening and mowing equipment Mr Shaz uses. Okay Shaz ... hope you are sleeping soundly and allowing that overworked body of yours a chance to heal. Please take care, you know you cannot be replaced.

Sherry 🌼💕

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Thinking of you @Shaz51 and hoping for a swift recovery

It's hard being sick in the heat

Hope you can rest and stay cool

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