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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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thank you @Former-Member

just a lot of pressure from my family lately

mum`s sisters and brother and nieces have voiced their options

I know what my mum wants and trying to respect her wishes against eveyone else`s thoughts

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im glad your mum hasn't been in hospital for a while now @Shaz51 I do hope that's a good sign shes improving.
I find my pop is ok staying home too, he gets bored but we try to find other hobbies for him such as a playing darts, puzzles and those sorts of things.

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Aw @Shaz51

People often do think they know best - but you know your mother

And Mr Shaz wants to sell the scooter - wow - she might suddenly decide to use it - I guess he means well

But you know your mother and what she wants - and 16 weeks since she has been in hospital sounds really great and it sounds as if she is ready to go when the time comes and it's her choice to stay at home and you are supporting her in that -

That's what I would want too - try and ignore the advice of the family - it's amazing how strongly people can feel that what they think is right and all that goes with such decisions - but you know your Mum and how much you can manage

All the best with that - it can't be easy

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@Owlunar, mr shaz says things everyday which never get done

spent the morning with mum while cleaning the house and watering the plants ect

hello and hugs @outlander , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Determined

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@Faith-and-Hope, @Appleblossom

i know you know

today is the anniversary that my 3 step grandchildren became angels today

woke up feeling sad all day

then my step S3 ex girlfriend rang me up and she still calls me mum -- it was hard xx

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Dear @Shaz51 An emotional time and some difficult memories for you and your extended step-family Shaz. Very sad indeed. But I love that your ex-stepSIL still calls you Mum. Sitting with you in quiet reflection on loss of loved ones.

Sherry 💕🌹🤗

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thank you my @Former-Member

how are you today xoxo

mr shaz is talking to his daughter at the moment xxxxx

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I didn’t know about your 3 step-grandchildren @Shaz51 ..... sending gentlenhygs your way .....

💜💜💜

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ohhh thank you my @Faith-and-Hope , i thought you knew xoxoxo

been a hard day with ex girlfriend ringing me aand still calling me mum

and also she put it on face book too with my step S3 and my name on it

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big hugs @Shaz51 thinking of you and sending lots of love ❤❤❤
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