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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Oh @Shaz51 ... such a worry for you. Really sorry to hear that.

But given that you have just spoken to your Mum before you even knew there was a problem, it sounds as though there is no immediate worry. Certainly nothing you can do tonight. Try to put it aside in your mind for now, and do what you can tomorrow to get her to have the lump seen to asap. And dont forget that she said she did not want further treatment for her skin cancers etc. At the end of the day, this is her choice, hard as it undoubtedly is for you. Of course it could be nothing, and having it checked out could allay all fears to the contrary.

Sherry 💕🤗

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very true @Former-Member , thank you xxx

will see mum in the morning before going food shopping

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Hi @Shaz51 hope things are going ok today.

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hello @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Adge , @Smc , @outlander

what a Long day !!!!!!

I could write a whole page of my day today

and I can include one word arrrgg "Family "

so in other word , my mum is ok , she had a little fall which she now has a bruise

my cousin worried me soo much last night

and she has been texting me and calling me to make me take mum to hospital

I will have to remember that I see my mum everyday as other family members don`t see her much, soo when my aunty saw my mum ( her sister ) she rang her daughter to tell her how my mum looks now

and then went on and on about me how i am looking after my mum -- arrrgggg

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@Shaz51

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apart from that @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Determined

today we went food shopping which is 30kms away for us and mum

put everything away

and mr shaz brought my old vacuum cleaner back to life

but it needed a new vacumm head so we drove to the city 60 kms to buy one

and then went to Bunnings and brought some cacti and succulents for me and mum

and then we went to a meeting

and we arrived back home at 4pm

and then we made a homemade pizza together xx

and then watched a movie we taped

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Sounds like it's all happening @Shaz51 , never a dull moment.

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PS glad to hear Mum OK

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never a dull moment., very true @Former-Member

never anything in between , it is full on or nothing

and me and my body has to keep up

@Former-Member, @Former-Member , @Determined , @Adge , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @outlander , @Faith-and-Hope

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mr shaz is going on and on about my cousin and aunty today after yesterday even to my mum this morning at morning tea

@Darcy, @Sherry , @Determined , @Adge , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Dec , @outlander , @Faith-and-Hope

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