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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Shaz51Senior Contributor27 Aug 2023, 6:06 pm AEST

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Awwww @Jacques 🥰

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JacquesSenior Contributor27 Aug 2023, 6:07 pm AEST

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you are an amazing person @Shaz51 i am so very proud to call you my friend. please rest i will be here to chat when i can. always here to listen. it breaks my heart to know someone has upset you so so much.

tomorrow is a new day for all of us. hugs

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Shaz51Senior Contributor27 Aug 2023, 6:10 pm AEST

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Having lots of tears here My brother @Jacques xx

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JacquesSenior Contributor27 Aug 2023, 6:12 pm AEST

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i know @Shaz51 my dear friend, i read it on the forum, gentle hugs. you will get through this. im here for you and mr shaz.

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tymeModerator27 Aug 2023, 7:29 pm AEST

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Hugs @Shaz51 ,

I'm sorry technology got the better of you. It sure sounds like it started off a lovely day, then sort of went downhill.

Know that it was NOT your fault. Technology is technology. It's so perfect that it gets things wrong.

Go easy on yourself.

Hugs to you.

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor27 Aug 2023, 7:30 pm AEST

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@Shaz51

You have had so much to deal with in the last few years. Tears dont always come in nice neat little drops. Sometimes they rain and pour with a mind of their own. Cocoon yourself while they do their thing. Know you have left a wonderful mark on the forums and have friends and support here. Not sure of all the dynamics, but you deserve a safe space irl.

Sending you my cocoon girl ... I love her ... she reminds me to care for me ...

Protective Cocoon

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OwlunarSenior Contributor27 Aug 2023, 10:18 pm AEST

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Aw @Shaz51

I am so sorry - you are dealing with so much and for so long now - I am not surprised you had to have or are still having a big teary attack. It has to happen,

And it is impossible for everything to be all your fault - that's the way you feel but it's not true - you are a wonderful person - and battling so much.

As far as Mr Shaz being upset at the thought of losing you - well - that would be true - and so is the reverse - you would be losing him too. I know he has severe anxiety after losing so much - still - there are things people just have to accept and deal with.

I get it - I am sending huge virtual but gentle hugs

Mumma Bear

Owlunar

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Aug 2023, 10:30 am AEST