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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Aww @Shaz51 the love you two share is so special. Poor Mr Shaz, he's got it tough right now hey.

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Wow my emotionally and mentally abused has come up this afternoon big time @Jynx , @Jacques , @Dimity , @Emelia8 , @hanami , @tyme , @RiverSeal , @Appleblossom , @Zoe7, @Snowie , @outlander , @Faith-and-Hope , @StuF , @Bunniekins , @Owlunar , @moderator

Totally destroyed the afternoon, I had visited mum after sleeping in

Then we went for a photograph drive which was lovely

Home for lunch then everything fell apart

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Hi @Shaz51

Sounds lovely going for a photography drive!

Was there something that happened today that our community can support you with or is it thinking about the past?

Stay strong and connect here on the Forums when you can.

Take care

RiverSeal

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I am crying here @RiverSeal

Things would not work for Mr shaz after our photographs afternoon on his computer and I thought it was ME

so he has gone to bed

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❤️ @Shaz51 …..

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Ohhh @Faith-and-Hope 😭

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Sometimes things happen with technology @Shaz51 and we can be really unlucky. Maybe you can figure out what's not working later if you look at it with fresh eyes.

Maybe Mr Shaz was tired and will feel better after his rest.

What can you do for yourself that can help for a while like a cuppa?

Stay connected here with the community and we can support you right now.

RiverSeal

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@Faith-and-Hope , @RiverSeal , @Jynx , @Jacques , @Dimity

Sitting on the patio having wine and cheese

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Hugs @Shaz51

Things have been coming up for me too. Sometimes we have to just let it happen... and maybe reassure the hurt little one inside us that it will pass. I'm glad you did some nice things today. I hope a cuppa or some distraction helps. I'm about to go for my walk. I see you've posted again - I'll read it before I go.

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Ohhh @Dimity , , something is wrongwithme @RiverSeal , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jynx , @Jacques , @tyme xx

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