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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 June 2023, 6:40 pm AEST

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makes it tough when someone refuses medication @Shaz51 hope she starts to agree to have them if thats whats best for her soon

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Shaz51Senior Contributor28 June 2023, 6:13 pm AEST

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Hello @creative_writer , this is one of my threads, my friend xx

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creative_writerSenior Contributor28 June 2023, 7:11 pm AEST

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@Shaz51, sounds like there is a lot going on with MIL and mum. I hope the there are able to help your MIL soon and I hope things get easier with mum 💖🫂

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Shaz51Senior Contributor28 June 2023, 7:31 pm AEST

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Me too @creative_writer @outlander , @TideisTurning @Dimity @StuF

Find out the results for MIL on next Wednesday

And my mum is slowly declining xxx

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creative_writerSenior Contributor29 June 2023, 4:08 pm AEST

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@Shaz51 💖🫂

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Shaz51Senior Contributor24 July 2023, 5:08 pm AEST

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@fluffylight , @creative_writer , @outlander , @TideisTurning , @Dimity , @StuF , @Determined , @tyme , @Owlunar , @hanami , @Appleblossom

What a build up today from this morning to now

Sitting by my self on the patio while Mr shaz is not good

Amm glad he has now gone to bed

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DimitySenior Contributor24 July 2023, 5:15 pm AEST

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Sounds like a difficult day @Shaz51 . Are you OK. ?

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hanamiSenior Contributor24 July 2023, 5:20 pm AEST

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Naw @Shaz51 sending hugs. I hope you get some well deserved rest tonight. I'll check in again tomorrow xxx

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StuFSenior Contributor24 July 2023, 5:24 pm AEST

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Hiya @Shaz51

I hope things improve this evening and you get some good rest tonight

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Shaz51Senior Contributor24 July 2023, 5:26 pm AEST

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Awww @Dimity , @hanami , soo hard to know what to say and what to do

Leaving him alone

Did a little weeding

Now inside , soo quiet , no TV

Might reheat some dinner for me

Ohhh my head

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