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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Sounds hard @Shaz51. I hope he can sleep it off, and you'll be supporting him. How can we best support you? A nice cuppa?

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Love a cuppa @Dimity and knowing you ate sitting with me xx

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That must be very hard for you @Shaz51 - knowing it is coming but still not knowing until it arrives. What has got you through in the past?

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Ammm @StuF

Tears In the bathroom, having a big coffee ☕️

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Oh @Shaz51

Virtual hugs

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I certainly am @Shaz51 . It's cold here in Melb but I'll put the kettle on.

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im sorry mr shaz is having a low @Shaz51 i guess he would have his own ways on how to cope with those.
its hard for carers though. are there things you can do to look after yourself?

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@Shaz51 🥺

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Hello @Shaz51 hope you and mr shaz are having a better day

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Hello and thank you @Dimity , @Determined , @outlander , @StuF , @amber22 , @tyme

A bit better today but Mr shaz is on a high and has been awake since 3.30am this morning and ( so have I)

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