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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

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unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Big hugs @Shaz51

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Be great if you could do it at home @Shaz51 - fingers and toes crossed that will be the way it works out

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yes thanks @FloatingFeather 😍 the specialist wants to delay it as long as we can 🙃

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that sounds like a really good idea, to have the afternoon to relax @Shaz51 and I'm glad that the phone call is over

you're doing so well ❤️

are you having a cuppa of coffee or tea today?

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having a coffee @amber22 😀

how are you today

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Yummmm I had a vanilla coffee earlier, what kind do you have? @Shaz51

I'm doing okay today, I've been really down recently so I am trying to do things that i know are good for me. Today I went to pilates

How are you today?

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no just normal coffee @amber22

sorry to hear you have been really down recently , sitting with you and here for you xxx

how do you feel now after doing pilates 😀

feeling a bit better then yesterday , lots of aches and pains but that is the norm now

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thank you xxx @Shaz51 I feel a lot better after doing something good for myself

aw I'm glad you're feeling a bit better, do you have much planned for tonight?

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nothing planned for tonight @amber22 , how about you

just watching some tv

mr shaz is thinking of getting the BBQ out and have steakettes for dinner --- but nothing is happening yet ( he might have changed his mind ) so I will have a standby meal idea just in case

my step daughter is having a baby later this year -- soo excited for her

a few years ago my step son 3 and his partner had lost their 3 little girls during the later term of the pregnancy

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Yum that sounds great!! @Shaz51

Awww how exciting for your step daughter!! Is this your first grandchild of the family?

I'm so sorry that happened, that must have been so hard for your family, sending you lots and lots of hugs ❤️

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