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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Hi again @Dimity

Thanks for telling me about St John Community Transport - I will follow that up. It would be great to have someone pick me up and wait - and to see my specialist in Frankston costs a lot in taxi fares even at half price

I hope you can get a card - there are times when it's easier than organising someone - there are times when taxis are hard to get too.

Thanks

It's always good to have a choice anyway.

Owlunar

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❤️ @Shaz51

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Hi @Shaz51,

I just saw your post and wanted to see how you are getting on now? I'm sorry that you were feeling so lonely - that's not a fun place to sit in. I really hope you are feeling a bit better today.

Big hugs,

FloatingFeather ❤️

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Hi @Shaz51

I'm so sorry to read that you were having a bad day yesterday. Things have been tough, hey. And fair enough, you have a lot on your plate. How are things today? It was so hot last week here but these last two days have been much cooler. I have no energy when it's that hot so can understand what you meant about the heat.

I hope things are a bit better for you today. I hope you could do something nice for yourself yesterday arvo.

❤️

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Hi @Shaz51 . A big cheerio to you this morning. Best wishes for the phone call, I hope they can tell you the outcome instead of leaving you to sweat on the results.

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awwwww hello my awesome friends @Paperdaisy , @hanami , @FloatingFeather , @Faith-and-Hope , @Owlunar , @Jacques @StuF @Bunniekins , @Emelia8 , @Smc

been awake since 4am this morning , mr shaz was wide awake and made us a cup of coffee and sat out on the patio watching our little town waking up

the day after mr shaz has a bad day , he is totally exhausted --- he says his brain is soo hurting today

soo it is good that we have the afternoon off today and it is raining sooo much but he is now doing things around the house

@Dimity how did you go with your appointment ?

For my phone appointment -- I have to wait for centrelink now to let me know the outcome

according to the sonic doctor i could swing either way ( a yes--- in some areas or a no --- that i am not bad enough !!!)

soo my head is aching now , waiting for the outcome

I could be doing something but at the moment i dont want to do anything soo maybe another cuppa might hit the spot

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Fingers crossed for you @Shaz51 That tea setting looks delicious!

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thank you @hanami , yes it has been very hot lately in many areas

continuing heavy rain today , still very warm here

how are you going today

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The endless jumping through hoops and waiting must be So frustrating for you @Shaz51

I think a cuppa is a great idea 🙂

I hope mr shaz settles a bit

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Glad to hear you've got through that dreaded phonecall now @Shaz51. I'm so very much hoping for a good result for you.

I'm fine thanks, transport will be OK, & dentist fixed my broken tooth this morning.

The cuppa sounds good. Do you have some downtime or a self-care activity lined up after that?

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