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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

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unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Hugs @Shaz51 so many emotions and memories with your things and your mum's things. Be in the moment, accept the feelings and let them pass - is what I'm telling myself as I go through things. I'm trying to reimagine my space and work towards it.

It sounds hot up there. In Melbourne it's very muggy. A big change from needing winter woollies.

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Know what you mean @Shaz51. By the time you've been emotionally "mugged" a few times by stored objects or papers bringing up unexpected memories, yeah, you need a rest. Try not to feel guilty, you're doing what you need to do. xx

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Awww thanks @Smc , @Dimity , @BlueBay ❤❤

Yes needed the afternoon off , did not even clean our house

Always tomorrow

Going to be another hot day

How are you xx

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@Shaz51, had a "lazy day" myself. I did get outside for a bit and pulled out some weeds, but otherwise been laid back. We've had one thing after another for the last couple of months, so I need to listen to my own advice... xx

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@Shaz51 ❤️

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Hello @Dimity , how did you go yesterday my friend xx

Hope you are going OK @Smc with the rain

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Hell9 @Shaz51 . My sister wasn't well so didn't come. Maybe another time.

Hope you're not too sore after your hard work yesterday.

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So you had a quiet day @Dimity ❤

Mr shaz made sure I did not do too much, did not take too long

He thought it was going to be a big job but glad it wasn't

Then on the way home we stopped in to see daughter and son inlaw , that was nice , she is soo close to her dad

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That's good @Shaz51, it sounds like a nice day

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But very sore this morning @Dimity

Had a sleep in and we went through one load of stuff we brought home from storage

Afternoon off in aircon

Going to visit mum soon

SIL gave us fish for dinner

How are you xx

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