FORUMS

Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

  • 47,612Members
  • 1,358,869Posts
  • 1,400,000Visitors
Friends, families and carers

Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

3201 replies

2,681 - 2,690 of 3,201

In response to: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Sounds like a nice weekend @Shaz51 . You're lucky to have so many family connections. Maybe your aunties just need reassurance that everything is under control, so they stop worrying (and stop hassling you).

How are mr shaz's meds changes going?

In response to: Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

I know my aunties and cousins means well but it just gets overwhelming at times @Dimity xx

Both me and Mr shaz had blood tests done last week soo we get the results this week

He is suppose to cut his anti depression medication and anti anxiety medication in half for starters and then cut further more but I don't think he will @tyme

In response to: Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

That's a big change for Mr shaz @Shaz51 but it's really good if the drs think he's making progress.

In response to: Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Yes the doctor said to try again cutting back @Dimity

As it did not work for Mr shaz 5 years ago to cut back , soo see how he goes xx

In response to: Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Take it slowly @Shaz51 it took me 3 months. Good luck, I can understand if he's nervous.

In response to: Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Ohh hugs @Dimity xx

Yes he will go as he feels , so he might take a whole one inbetween depending on what is happening or extra as he goes

In response to: Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Thinking of you lovely @Shaz51

Look after yourself incl hubby.
sending you lots of love xxxooo

In response to: Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

I'm here listening @Shaz51 ,

hugs, tyme

In response to: Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Thank you my @BlueBay , @tyme 🥰

In response to: Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Thinking of you @Shaz51
Hearing you have a lot going on at the moment.
Despite this you are still providing so much support here on the forum.
Really appreciate all that you do 💛

2,681 - 2,690 of 3,201