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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Yes it's a worry @Shaz51 but hopefully behind you now. She must be a very strong person (like you).

Glad you're easing back into work.

It's cold and wet here (9 degrees) but I'd better go do my daily walk.

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@Shaz51Hopefully your mum will settle in and get the care she needs...and Mr Shaz will be able to settle his mind at night too 🙂

Good you got some work in. I imagine it would at least take your mind of things for a while? (And you get paid, which is always nice! lol)

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Thinking of you my awesome sister @Shaz51

your mum is in good care


sending love hugs snd strength to you all

♥️💐xxxooo 🤗🤗

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Thinking of you all @Shaz51 hoping that your mum has the best care and treatment that she can manage.

Also you and Mr Shaz; need special time and rest to look after yourselves.

I hope that you both have support.

💜

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Thank you my @Sophia1 ❤❤❤

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Ohhhh what a terrible, rotten end to an afternoon

We worked for 4 hours this morning

Had lunch , then had to sign our tax and go to the dentist for Mr shaz

Got home and I rang the hospital to get the xrays results and found out my mum is not there anymore

WHAT she has been moved to another hospital for therapy!!!!!!!!!

Did I know or was told , NO !!!!!!!

The doctor rang and said he talked to her daughter---- no way , I am mum's only child and no one rang me all day 😥😓

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how the hell can that happen @Shaz51

it's most likely the dr didn't speak to anyone at all

and like you say you are the only child!!!

so how far away is she now?

oh hugs my sis @Shaz51

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Oh that sounds like a rough day dear @Shaz51

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WTAF @Shaz51 ???

That's terribly messed up

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Sure is @Bow , @BlueBay

She is now 30kms away now which is better for us but did not know anything

The doctor rang to apologise for what had happened

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