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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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What date is yours @Paperdaisy

Mine and @Faith-and-Hope is on the 25th

Very bad day for mum today , she looked soo bad , soo upsetting xxx

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Oh no @Shaz51 it's so hard to see

sending you lots of hugs love and strength xxxxoooo

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Thank you my sister @BlueBay

It was a shock to see mum soo bad , not sure whether to still go away for the weekend this weekend xxx

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How far away from the hospital are you going @Shaz51

Did you let the drs know

it’s a difficult decision

hugs xxxx

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❤️ @Shaz51 …..

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Yes hard decision @BlueBay , @Faith-and-Hope , @Paperdaisy , @Zoe7 , @Appleblossom , @Emelia8

Mum has gone for a MRI and a CAT scan today

Mum wants me to still go away for the weekend

Have to let the doctors and nurses know

Still feel bad about it but we will not be too far away

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Hugs to you @Shaz51 because I know it can be a difficult decision. but remember what they say about putting your own mask on first!

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I know its a difficult decision to make @Shaz51 , but its the right one. 💝

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Very true @Former-Member , @Emelia8

And also i know mum would be upset if I did not go xx

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Sending love my sis @Shaz51 xxxxooo

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