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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Sooo many feelings and emotions my @StuF

I know I will be OK but it is just getting there xxxx

Ohh well 3 more days of work and more information for centrelink and seeing mum on Wednesday and Thursday before our weekend getaway xxx

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Hello @Former-Member ❤❤

Finding it soo hard to take and to enjoy -- ammm I wrong in feeling this way

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Hey @Shaz51,

Without quite knowing what's up, I think it's pretty safe to say that all emotions are valid 💛

Was there something that was troubling you this evening?

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@Former-Member

My mum is back in hospital with very bad pain from her fall 3 weeks ago

She is being well cared for in hospital and having MRi on Thursday why she is still in lots of pain

Mr shaz wants to have a my birthday weekend away this weekend while mum is in hospital xoxo

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Gotcha @Shaz51, and it sounds like you're feeling a little unsure about that?

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Just a little @Former-Member

But it will be good while mum is still in hospital Then trying to do it when she is back home xx

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Enjoy those moments with MrShaz when you get them @Shaz51 😊

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❤❤❤❤ @Former-Member

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I'm so glad for you @Shaz51 there's so much good news there today. You can rest and enjoy your time away with Mr shaz. Getting the mri organised was important. The aged care package should help a lot and having your mum on a waitlist for residential care is peace of mind. You're so good at organising and coordinating!!

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Awwwwww thank you @Dimity and I totally feel had it tonight after all that organising today

Tomorrow I have to finish what centrelink wants xxx

Hope you are OK my friend xx

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