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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

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unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Sorry for any confusion @Shaz51, meant looking after yourself as well when you said you're back to doing everything again and taking care of mum. Sad to hear you're feeling yucky

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thank you @Ali11

mum is still getting meals on wheels but everything else is back on me xoxo

had a lovely long bath last night

this weekend i have a voluteeries lunch to go to xx

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A long bath sounds amazing @Shaz51, that's a lovely way to treat yourself and get some quiet time. The lunch sounds like it'll be good, does everyone bring a plate or is it put on?

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@Ali11

the top bosses put a event on once a year

mum was doing a lot not this year , but we were still invited

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That's lovely of them @Shaz51, glad they've invited you, you've obviously made an impact there

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@Ali11, I took mum down to the shop where she used to help out and she got lots of hugs from everyone , I think it made her morning xxxx

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That's beautiful @Shaz51, and hearing that has made my day Mum must've felt so loved in that moment, everyone showing affection.

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@Ali11, I think it has made mum`s recovery a step up this afternoon after this morning

mum have a blood test done yesterday , the doctor hinks she might be lacking B12

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Can imagine @Shaz51, saw someone say the opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it's connection. That can apply across our emotional states as well, when we feel loved and valued we're more optimistic about our lives Lacking B12, is that bananas? Or are we thinking of Bananas In Pyjamas, B1 and B2?

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ha ha @Ali11 B12 means eating more clam, mussel crab salmon beef eggs (whole) milk xxx

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