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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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glad you are chilling out, your dinner sounds yummy, i had a schnitzel and potato gems with peas.

it is freezing here, im wrapped up in a blanket watching tv with my partner.

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Awww that sounds wonderful my brother @Jacques

What are you watching xxxx

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Need warming up my brother @Jacques xoxo

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Hi @Shaz51 sorry my internet dropped out. We are watching antiques roads how. Gosh there is some beautiful things in the world

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We are watching that too my brother @Jacques xx

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Thinking of you @Shaz51

Have some concerns with FIL at the moment so feeling some of your pain.

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Ohh @Determined thinking of you and your FIL , hope you are OK my brother

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We are ok at the moment @Shaz51

As with you can see age starting to take its toll. Had a fall last week resulting in a ambulance ride. Home that night.

Possible heart surgery coming up 😬

Still independent but not sure how long that will last 😥

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Oh @Shaz51, having recently gone through this with my grandmother, my heart goes out to you because I know how difficult this process can be 💜 It's so hard to advocate for care on their behalf when they so desperately want to be home with you. I hope you're being kind to yourself and taking it easy where you can because these times can be quite taxing, both mentally and physically.

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Hi @Shaz51

How are things today? How's your mum dealing with the hospital stay? Hope you are ok

sending hugs

hanami 💮

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