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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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That's how my MIL was. Always angry at us and blaming us for things that we never did (ie take her jewellery). Her memory was getting worse so quickly.
I feel for you sis. It's really hard.

reg the doctor - is there a way you can make an appt to see the doctor without your mum. Otherwise it will be hard to talk with your mum there.
hugs xxxxx

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That is a great idea my sister @BlueBay

I will ask for another appt without mum

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Thank you my sister xoxo @Emelia8 for your support , I hope you are ok

Sitting with you , mum is out of sorts tonight my @BlueBay , @Zoe7

She keeps turning the aircon on and off, argh

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@Shaz51
Another thing we found out - when MIL was ratty she would have a urine infection. Apparently it's common. Just a thought??

take care lovely xxxx

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Yes I will get that check out too my sister xoxo @BlueBay

Mum has reoccurring bowel obstructions too

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So much for you to deal with my sister I can hear how hard it is for you and how much it is taking it's toll on you @Shaz51 I am glad it was just you and Mr Shaz out together today - you need breaks like that for your own wellbeing.

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That's exactly what I was thinking @BlueBay !

@Shaz51 , if she is acting especially ratty and out of character, it could be an infection or a medication issue.

I hope it gets resolved soon.

Sounds like you need a big hug from everyone! HUGS!

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Thank you @BPDSurvivor ❤

Mum looks very tired and has aches and pains @Zoe7 , @BlueBay , @Appleblossom , @Emelia8, @Former-Member

Mr shaz and I are very tired soo going to bed soon

Made mum a cuppa xxx

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Hello @BPDSurvivor

@BlueBay @Anastasia @Zoe7

@Shaz51

Sounds like it has been a long day.

Sending you a gentle scene.

McCubbin Falls Bridge

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Thank you @Appleblossom , hope you are ok xoxo

Ohh @Adge , thank you for your support my friend, and wow, that makes a long day for you and your body

Take care , need to look after yourself and your health xxx

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