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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Hugs to you too @Shaz51 and Hi @Former-Member

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hello @eth , @Former-Member , @Eve7 , @outlander , @Appleblossom , @Adge , @Faith-and-Hope , @Determined , @Smc , @Bunniekins , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Zoe7

have not been on this tread for a while

mum is aching and sore everywhere, her arm seems to be getting worse and the legs weaker

so finally going to the doctor on wednesday

i have had my blood test done

saw the kidney nurse today , see the specialist next week

boy had a very bad night last night , not sure if it is the gall bladder or something else

but my poor mum was so upset , relising how much she depends on me

the house is tottally gone now -- only a vacant land now with our shed on it

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Thanks for the update @Shaz51 ... but sorry there wasnt something more positive there. Hang in there. 💓🤗🌸

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thanks my @Emelia8 , sending you hugs too

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Love to all of you @Shaz51. So much going on.


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It must be so strange to see only shed. @Shaz51 DId you manage to scavenge things and store them there?

Being dependent is not nice, especially when the that person has more than their fair share to juggle.

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🧡❤️ @Shaz51 .....

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You are dealing with so much @Shaz51 and you give out so much that I want to give you a big encouraging hug.

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@Shaz51 - you sure got your hands full. Can you sell the land and build a Granny Flat at your mums? Just a thought 💜

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hi @Emelia8 💐💗

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