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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Ohhh @Former-Member

The first cleaning job we had , a house minder was there this week while the owners are away and she was drinking wine at 8 am

She kept talking to me which was ok as i supported her while we were there

When we got to the second cleaning job Mr shaz was a totally mess

He said that the morning had put him down

Ohh I nearly had to do everything

After that we went to mow a lawn which we have not been able to mow since Christmas time

The customer was soo happy

But Mr shaz felt she was not

Then Mr shaz brought some beer home

My mum was upset and angry about her day

I brought roast chicken and salad for dinner which was good

Mum only had custard for dinner

We were suppose to be mowing tomorrow but the customer has cancelled

Mr shaz is feeling very low all day

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Thank you my @Jacques , @Zoe7 @ read the message above x

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Oh dear @Shaz51 So much on your shoulders from all angles today Hon. I do hope you can put your feet up tonight and Mr Shaz and your Mum are a little better tomorrow. You hold everyone together my sister but make sure you look after yourself too. Hugs and hugs and hugs and hugs

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I'm so sorry @Shaz51 you guys are under so so much pressure with yuour house, sounds like the stress is just too much for Mr shaz. With the cencelation maybe you and Mr shaz could have a day to just chill together

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Big hugs @Shaz51

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

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Yikes @Shaz51 , hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.

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@Former-Member , @Eve7 , @Jacques , @Zoe7

Just had a shower, put the washing on the line , done the dishes

And I said to Mr shaz that we can have a sleep in tomorrow

#####¥%₩#@%& says Mr shaz

Mum is watching the nature show

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Mr shaz sounds very anxious, might be worth getting him to speak with a professional @Shaz51 you will burn out too, please take time to look after yourself, you look after Mr shaz amd your mum so well, but it must be at an emotional and mental cost to you, please do something nice for yourself tomorrow

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Time for a cuppa on the deck maybe @Shaz51

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Very true my @Jacques

See how everyone is in the morning xx xxx

How are you going my friend xxx

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