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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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So the applications were approved @Shaz51?

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yes @Smc xxxx

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Hi @Shaz51

Of course - it was Fathers Day on Sunday and Mr Shaz heard from all his kids - that's really great

But you feel yukky - I hope you are not over-doing things - and that is so easy to do - and you have to wait until tomorrow to hear what the specialist has to say

So I hope all goes well with the specialist etc - dietician and blood tests - and that a kidney comes available for you so you don't need to go onto dialysis which would not be entertaining and would be time consuming but might be necessary

Are they doing elective surgery where you are - though I think it would be urgent surgery if a donor comes along - or Mr Shaz can provide it - I actually didn't think that a different blood type would work for a transplant but how great if it does work

Take things easy for a bit now and again Shaz - you are a great Aussie Battler but you need to give yourself a better chance - but yes - I do know

Care heaps

Dec

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@Shaz51 and @Owlunar

Emelia 🌸

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ohhhhhh my @Emelia8 , sooo happy to see you my awesome friend , sister

I hope you are ok xxoxo

lots happening here xx

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can't believe it has been 6 years already , feels like it was yesterday

hugs to my step S3 and his ex girlfriend

another anniversary

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thanks @Former-Member , @Emelia8

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what a week soo far @Emelia8 , @Owlunar , @Smc , @Determined , @outlander , @Anastasia , @FindingStrength , @Adge , @Faith-and-Hope , @eth , @Appleblossom , @Jacques

Anniversary yesterday where my 3 granddaughters became angels -- 6 years ago

me _---- trying to control my diabetes and lose weight

lots of aches and pains , blood tests next week

my Polar bear mr shaz does not want to talk about it

my mum , I have become her carer , balance is hard being there for everyone

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OMG @Shaz51

That is a difficult anniversary.

Maybe its alright if your Polar Bear does not always talk about it. Pay attention to what you can. You have enuff on your plate.

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Oh @Shaz51 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

On point @Appleblossom 🙂

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