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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Shaz51 😔

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Awwwww thank you for being with me @Determined , @Emelia8 xoxo

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Ohh trying to work out if it is better for us to move to mum's to take care of her

Or for mum to move in with us

@Determined , @Emelia8 , @eth , @Anastasia , @Maggie , @Faith-and-Hope , @Owlunar , @Appleblossom , @Adge , @Former-Member , @outlander

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Big decision @Shaz51 😕 and not one I feel able to advise on. I dont know the situation on space, facilities, vital health service availability, etc at each of your respective residences. You also need to consider Mr Shaz. Lots to think about. 💗

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Very true my sister @Emelia8

Have to consider Mr shaz

And also my aunty (mum's sister ) who visits all the time

I am thinking mum's place would be way much better for everyone xxxxxxxxxx

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Oh @Shaz51

That is sad!!!!! Sending you the biggest hug from the bottom of my heart ❤️

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Are you ok @Emelia8 ?

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Yeah I think so @Anastasia . Just been a very emotional day I think. Thank you for asking. 💕

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Ditto for me @Emelia8 @ my son goes in to hospital tomorrow 😭

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Oh, that came about quicker than you thought @Anastasia . Thats going to be a worry for you then, but a good thing overall. How does your son feel about it all?

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