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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Keeping sleep pattern regular can be difficult in a social setting , sure does @Former-Member

how are you today

Mr shaz is cooking dinner tonight -- ( looks like it might be spaghetti )

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Going ok @Shaz51

Will pick up Mr Darcy soon for his afternoon leave from hospital.

I hope the twin is a better cook than Mr D ... yikes Shazzle Dazzle ... not missing the watery pasta but did enjoy the cuppa he made for me on his morning leave. 😁

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Hi @Shaz51

It sounds like a busy weekend for you and you saw your Mum and your MIL and had messages from all the steps - and it would be good if they lived nearer - I am sure of that

One spot - Mr Shaz was up later than usual - I know he copes with life by going to bed so a later bed-time than usual would cause his anxiety to flare a bit - I hope it's all settled today

And reading up the page about getting ready for the transplant - I agree - it would be a good idea to prepare by taking time to rest as often as you can - you are a hard worker but it's important to rest too

I hope the rest of your Mothers Day is just as pleasant

Dec

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happy mother`s day my second Mum @Owlunar

we are home now , had lunch

and mr shaz is good again in his comfort zone -- i think he will be going for a catchup sleep soon

he made me a cuppa and said he is cooking dinner tonight

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Hi again @Shaz51

That is a lovely rose - thank you

I'm glad Mr Shaz was okay back in his comfort zone and also - giving you a cup of tea or coffee - and cooking the dinner too - that's good

I cooked a hot pot - very tasty - and enough for dinner tomorrow which is always better the next day - it should be fabulous then

Dec

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i will have to cook a hot pot , yes always better the day after @Owlunar

yes just reading my information about what is next with the kidney

find out more on thursday

i try not to tell mr shaz everything too early as it would raise his anxiety levels but just enough xx

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@Shaz51 ❤

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hello my sister @outlander

how are you today xxxx

I had a "why me " moment this afternoon
going to replant Lily seeds into the garden and some pots to see if they grow
gave some to mum this morning , but now i need to buy some potting mix for her

@Former-Member, @Bunniekins

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@Shaz51 everyone is allowed a 'why me moment'xxxx take care sister.

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thank you my sister @Bunniekins

having a sore thoart all afternoon
and then i was reading my email message about transplant
and then my SIL rang and we had a talk
so one step at a time again here
hoping this sore thoart and feeling claming goes away
mum has another appt tomorrow
and then ours on thursday to find out some of the results

@outlander, @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Former-Member

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